Tükenmeden nasıl lisans diploması alabilirim ve tam zamanlı bir işe sahip olabilirim?

Kovid üniversitedeki birinci yılımın ortasında geldi ve bunun kariyerime zarar verdiğini söylemek yetersiz kalır. Derin bir depresyona girdim ve bunun için hastaneye gitmek zorunda kaldım. Şu anda yerel topluluk kolejimde üniversite derslerini nasıl yönlendireceğimi öğrenirken bir ortak bulmak için çalışıyorum ama yine de başarısız olduğumu hissediyorum. Beş yıl oldu ve hala ilerlememiş gibi hissediyorum

Şu anda sadece bunca zamanı ve acıyı telafi etmenin ve yarayı kapatmanın bir yolunu bulmaya çalışıyorum. Üniversitedeki sosyal hayattan vazgeçtim. Buna sahip olma fırsatını her ne kadar istesem de, burada devlet üniversitesinde bile sırf 26 yaşımdan dolayı bundan atıldım. Sosyal olmak için son şansım, daha bunu kullanamadan çalındı ​​ve ben bunu çoktan kabullenmiştim. Şu anda nasıl tam zamanlı bir işe sahip olabileceğimi ve tükenmeden lisans diplomamı nasıl alabileceğimi bulmaya çalışıyorum. Çünkü tekrar o lanet hastaneye gitmek zorunda kalmak istemiyorum

Birisi bana herhangi bir tavsiyede bulunabilir mi?

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  1. cacille
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    I’m more confused by this than can give any advice.
    I’m really confused as to why you’re putting this Appalachian Mountain worth of Failure onto your shoulders.

    Covid ruined your college? Not your doing. But it’s like….you’re blaming yourself for the hurting it did of your career path, when you were in COLLEGE. Not even in a career path yet. Then it’s been 5 years and you feel like you’ve failed but….you’re continuing your associates when doing it with a FT job. So that doesn’t make sense why you’re putting failure on yourself for that.

    Then you’re saying your age….cut your “last chances” of being social….because the CC says you’re too old….for….social activities? I mean the college may have limitations on that for good reasons….but – social isn’t limited to college? What?

    Are you sure you just haven’t made failure and depression into your best friend and you’re doing what you can to justify it being so in really mentally looped ways?

    NOT judging. Just trying to understand your thought patterns here.

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  2. Radiant-Mistake-2962
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    A lot of people do college beginning their freshmen year of high school but they drop out or don’t pass. In one class, out of 120 students that entered, less than half of them were left. I don’t know what they’re doing now because you need to climb some sort of ladder to progress in life and that starts with a degree for most jobs.

    I can’t imagine taking classes full time or part time with or without a job. I’d take it slow and do 2 classes a semester. It’ll take 10 years to get a bachelors if you do that.

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  3. Appropriate-Tutor587
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    At this best, you should take classes fulltime and work part time if you want to quietly finish your degree, or you can work fulltime and take classes part time, but it will take you some time to graduate in that case. I can’t suggest you to do both on a fulltime basics based on your history, but time management is what will get you there if you plan accordingly.
    College isn’t the only way of socializing and in fact, I never went for any of those things beside career fairs because I was going there to study and get my degree, not to waste my time with unnecessary party that you can go to outside of college 😂😂. No one will remember you anyway when you graduate (except 1 or 2 people) because you will all go separate way and never hear from each other again.

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  4. ThatGirlBon
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    Try online college that is aimed for non traditional learners? I’ve done quite a bit of online courses, and a lot of classes have WhatsApp chat groups for support and socialization. Everyone comes from different backgrounds, and it’s very supportive because almost everyone is working and taking classes simultaneously. If you’re worried about accountability, look specifically for classes that have synchronous lecture times via zoom.

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  5. bourneroyalty
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    Sounds like you need to find a therapist.

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  6. MrBrandopolis
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    adderall

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  7. Shot-Contest-5224
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    You have to just take up the challenge. A piece of iron turns into steel under immense heat and taking a good pounding.

    When I was 17 (right after graduating hs) I started working part-time at a bank a few months before I started my freshman year of college. During my 2nd year if college I got a promotion and had to work full-time while attending university full-time.

    It was hard to say the least. But they were willing to schedule me around my class times.

    So I worked 6 days a week (Monday-Saturday)

    I would open the branch, then a few hours later drive to class, then come back work a few more hours, then drive back to campus and attend more classes until 10:45pm (tuesday & thursday) were the longest. Then I worked from 9am- 4pm every Saturday.

    And on top of that I had a girlfriend and went out with my buddies Saturday nights.

    When i look back at that time now, I dont know how I did it. But I did. I worked through the 08′ crash. Saw alot.

    It seems like alot but tbh when your going through it, you just need to keep moving forward one step at a time.

    Knowing that I was able to accomplish graduating in time while working full time and having a life. Gives me the strength even now to pursue my goals.

    If I can do it, you can to. I am not special in any way.

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  8. EpicureanOwl
    Ekim 8, 2025 - 9:17 pm

    Think of it as bootcamp and don’t worry about being happy or burning out. It’ll suck the entire time and push you beyond your limits, but in the end of 4 years you’ll be stronger than ever and it’ll be very worth it 

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