erasersled Mart 10, 2026

Başlatmayı başaramadığınızda ne olur?

Ben (26F) kazadan önce son derece başarılı bir üniversite kariyerine sahiptim ve bir süre sonra zor olsa da (bkz: tedavi edilmemiş TBI). Prestijli bir lisans okuluna ve hemen ardından son derece prestijli bir yüksek lisans okuluna gittim. Lisansüstü okul çok zordu ve sanat kariyerim için olacağını düşündüğüm fırlatma rampası değildi. Temel olarak, lansmanda başarısızlık çekiyorum ve kötü bir geçmişe sahip olduğumdan, her zaman çalışabileceğimi düşündüğüm hayattan dışlanmış hissediyorum. Ne yapacağımı bilmiyorum; Yüce hayallerim var ama bu günlerde iyi bir şeyin yakında olmayacağını hissediyorum, bundan vazgeçmek zorunda kalabilirim.

Başlatma başarısızlığıyla karşılaştığınızda ne yaparsınız? Hiç kimse olmayı kabul etmem mi gerekiyor?

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my_peen_is_clean

Mart 10, 2026 - 9:19 pm

you don’t have to give up the art dream, but it probably can’t be the whole plan right now a lot of people work a stable job that doesn’t drain them then build art on the side and slowly level it up and yeah, finding that job now is insanely hard

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trynavi

Mart 10, 2026 - 9:19 pm

A failed launch isn’t the end – it’s just a punch.
Just because something didn’t work out once doesn’t mean you can’t achieve it.

You can still go after your dreams.
First, accept what happened unfortunately.

Start small. Set tiny milestones that build momentum.
One step at a time, you’ll get there.

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parntsbasemnt4evrBC

Mart 10, 2026 - 9:19 pm

Whether your somebody or nobody isn’t determined by other people but your own perspective on how you view yourself. So you can be a somebody as long as you believe you are doing something meaningful or accomplished something to be proud of. Whether that fits the conventional successful or not that garners widespread praise & envy from everyone else shouldn’t matter.

Also, it’s usually a good idea to limit social media usage, b/c everyone shows you only their best self and it gives you false sense that everyone is winning and has perfect life while you are stuck losing with a boring life. While in reality majority is far closer to you then you realize. This is a plague on society keeping many people down, defeated, and depressed in a state of hopelessness. Your only viewing a finished product of likely many many small wins/luck stringed together. It can be overwhelming to focus on the cumulatively when you need to just focus on only one step at a time to be more manageable mentally.

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