Benim için herhangi bir umut var mı?

25 yaşındayım ve üçüncü bir dünya ülkesinde yaşıyorum. Param yok. Birkaç farklı yetenekli iş ve meslek denedim ama bunlardan hiçbirine bağlı kalamadım çünkü onları düzgün bir şekilde öğrenecek kadar akıllı değilim.

Burada askerlik hizmeti 24 ay boyunca zorunludur. Şu anda 7. ayımdayım. Hizmetim her gün sabah 7’den akşam 2’ye, Cumartesi’den Perşembe’ye kadar çalışır ve bitirdiğimde neredeyse 27 olacağım.

Dürüst olmak gerekirse, hayatımın zaten bitmiş gibi hissediyorum. Umudum yok. Bunu sadece burada yazıyorum çünkü konuşacak kimsem yok, baskı ezici ve ne yapacağımı bilmiyorum.

Benim gibi biri için umut var mı? Benzer bir durumda olan ve işleri tersine çevirmeyi başardı mı?

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  1. LighterViewLifeCoach
    Ekim 3, 2025 - 8:18 pm

    Can you provide any specifics?

    What country are you in?

    Which skilled jobs/professions have you tried?

    What do you want to do with your life?

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  2. FakeBubba
    Ekim 3, 2025 - 8:18 pm

    Hey, listen I just saw this post and it had no comments at this moment, I just want to say first though that there’s hope. Unfortunately I cannot say I am in your current position nor similar to it therefore what I say from experience standpoint is not relevant.

    What I can say though is just from what I see from what you said; you have tried different skilled jobs and professions, meaning you have exposure to various environments. While I do not know the full story of what you meant by “couldn’t stick with any of them because I’m not smart enough”, the fact that you tried means A) you are willing to throw yourself in new things, B) maybe you haven’t found what you actually can and want to do yet and C) you probably haven’t found how you best learn.

    It feels wrong for me to simply just say “don’t worry” even if I mean that in the purest and genuine manner since it’ll be more of a gut-punch, and I don’t fully know what tools and resources you have available given you’re in military service right now, however don’t give up in finding new things and learning new things.

    A common “problem” in studying is following models or some “method” of studying. While these can work for others following them, I find a lot will struggle with following them because these are methods that worked for someone, but it ain’t necessarily be for you. YOU are NOT the problem because you believe you’re not smart enough, you just haven’t found the method that was made for you, so keep trying because you still have hope.

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