Kasım 5, 2025
Ãœniversiteye gidebilir miyim bilmiyorum.
18 yaşındayım ve üniversitede baÅŸarılı olabileceÄŸimi düşünmüyorum. Yaklaşık altı haftadır buradayım ve iÅŸin neredeyse hiçbirini yapmadım. Otizmim, DEHB’m, depresyonum, anksiyetem var ve bunların hepsi birleÅŸerek ciddi yönetici iÅŸlev bozukluÄŸu sorunları ve herhangi bir motivasyon eksikliÄŸi oluÅŸturuyor. Kendimi korkudan baÅŸka bir ÅŸey yapmaya ikna edemiyorum.
Annemle babam duygusal olarak istismarcıdır ve onlarla yaşamaya geri dönersem sonun kasvetli ve nihai olacağını biliyorum. Daha önce hiç işim olmadı ve üniversite tüm hayatım boyunca tek seçenek olarak sunuldu. Genç yaşta ölmeyi gerektirmeyen başka ne yapabileceğim hakkında hiçbir fikrim yok. Tekrar ailemle yaşayamam. Ama sanırım mahkumum.
Herhangi bir tavsiye faydalıdır. Bu noktada herhangi bir hayata sahip olmak için yardıma ihtiyacım var.
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Autism? Adhd? Depression and anxiety? Bro you and everyone else, welcome to college. If you are not living with your abusive parents anymore then it’s up to you to make the most with your environment, look up to significant figures in your life that are worth listening to (can be professors) to help carve a meaningful path that you are willing to take for self improvement. Have you heard of the dimensions of wellness? Google it and see where you can improve.
Never having a first teenage Job can be the most minor setback because you lack the experience, but start applying yourself and take advantage of your situation and take the time to look inward and ask yourself what you really want in life.
Maybe get out and meet some other college friends. Also you can look for study groups amongst your classmates. Another option is to join college clubs or groups that you are interested in. College is supposed to be a fun time in your life. Trust me… it gets way more stressful when you are older and have a full time job supporting yourself and possibly a family. You are only 18 years old and have your entire life ahead of you and this should be the best time of your life. If you are struggling with mental health issues I would suggest to see a professional to help. You got this!!
I’m just letting you know shut up you want to come and get me that’s up to you I’ll be coming back on you now That’s on That’s on you now you don’t know how bad you made me feel thank you make me feel stupid while a lot of people I don’t understand I don’t anymore at all I am being honest with you that is for real true