Ok_Local6758 Ağustos 1, 2025

26m başarısızlık ve değişmek istiyorum.

Burada bu yaş oldu ve kaybeden olmaktan başarılı olmaya giden oldu mu? Bağlam için, bu yıl uzun vadeli işsizlik ile mücadele ettim, tüm spor salonumu kaybettim, hala evde yaşıyorum. Bu yıl kendimi kaybettim. Parasızdım, sıska olmaya geri döndüm, hiçbir ilişkisi olmadı ve hayatımdan nefret ettim. 5 ayda 27 olacağım ve bu yıl bir araba sahibi olmak ve ülke dışına seyahat etmek dışında gösterecek hiçbir şeyim yok. Temelde değeri olmayan bir erkek çocuğum. 20’li yaşlarım boyunca durgunlaştım. Her zaman çıkmaz işlerde çalıştı, asla zam almak için bakmadı, her zaman sadece hayatta yaşamak için minimum çıplak yapıyor.

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Responsible-Tip-7252

Ağustos 1, 2025 - 3:12 pm

It’s never to late to change your direction in life

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PomegranateCool1754

Ağustos 1, 2025 - 3:12 pm

The thing about the gym though is that if you exercised in the past you will have muscle memory therefore, whenever you exercise again you will gain muscle at a faster rate compared to when you had first began exercising.

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Lianrue

Ağustos 1, 2025 - 3:12 pm

You can turn around. If it helps, here’s my story:

At 27 I had a college degree, private, expensive, and had held no real job, no professional work experience, had generated no real income. My then boyfriend left me for another girl, and I was living paycheck to paycheck. On top of that, a tooth was starting to hurt real bad and I had no dental insurance. How does the A Student ends up so behind the pack?

I tried asking my mother for money to go to the dentist, she hung up and said it was my responsibility, this was the life I had chosen. I don’t even remember how I pooled the money and got the needed care, but I was done with that life. I was trying to become an artist, but evidently had no mentorship and no idea on how to do it. So that was it for me. I applied for a sales job, said farewell to music school, packed my stuff and move once again. First paycheck felt like “this is life, this is what security feels like”. Wrong, I was fired 10 months into the gig and the guy I dated during that period literally ghosted me.

Then I got into an arts management internship, spend my last dimes mostly from my severance package and went all in. I lived with a host family which allowed me to witness what a loving family is like. I was still broke, but emotionally better than before. Then… just one thing after the next. Once I hit my first professional gig, the next ones lined up. 8 years later, I’m in a very solid position (startup tho, they can still fire me at any day) and whatever happens I tust I got some serious skills businesses are willing to pay for, not out of the blue, there was sleepless nights studying and lots of failed projects, but here we are, in a place I never thought I was gonna be.

Not everything is great. I cry constantly, grieving for my mid 20’s hoping I hadn’t screwed up so hard, lost so much time chasing fuckboys instead of building real connections, I wouldn’t be this lonely had I known better back then. But I guess… one step at the time, at least this time we won’t starve.

So, yeah, you’re gonna make it, just keep pushing. And remember to seed now what you want to harvest: real friendships, connection, and the rest will come with grit.

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