21 yaşındayım ve hayatımı boşa harcadığımı hissediyorum

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1. VampArcher

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   Welcome to your 20’s, most of us are dealing with all or at least one of the above.

   The people who turn 18, go to school, get a great job and have everything all fall into place are not the norm. This is way more common than social media wants you to think.

   It takes time to figure out where your people are at, what career is for you, and what you want from life. The life we want is not something that falls into place, it’s something you begin building for yourself.

   Your 20’s are a great time to start asking yourself what kind of life you want for yourself and to start making steps towards that. It’s never too late to change course until your life is over. You have your list right here of what things you don’t like about your life now. Take them one at a time, picture what it is that you do want, and figure out how you can get there. The path forward will begin to reveal itself.

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2. PotatoNuggies

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   Believe me, you didn’t waste your life. 22-28 is a whole new life. Just get out there and grab life by the nuts. There’s always room to move forward and there’s no use regretting the path you’ve walked because you can’t change it now.

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3. PieceJunior

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   I can be your new virtual friend

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4. Kigalion7

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   Most important thing to do is be grateful you realized this at 21 and not 31, start working out today and figure out what you want and work towards it.

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5. RedFlutterMao

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   The military can offer you a real good career with excellent benefits

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6. davidbosley353

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   Well honestly, your life is just getting started. i just turned 21, and i also don’t have a driver’s license or a job yet. you will eventually get there, doesn’t mean your life is completely wasted. there are a lot of opportunities you can start on while you are this young, like military, community college, or even good paying jobs without a degree. I would just figure out what you are doing now and hopefully you can try to work hard for any path you can potentially take for your current and future life.

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7. Clementine1812

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   Sounds like you’re in a great spot to make pretty much anything that you want happen! What brings you joy? What ideas do you have for a career? Would moving to a different location help, if you have the means to do so? Is grad school an option or interest?

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8. lartinos

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   So you graduated and that was a waste?

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9. Upbeat_Juice1792

   Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

   Exactly how I feel at 22. Went through a breakup as well and now have no social life, no job, no friends

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10. Ok_Practice1866

    Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

    Nessa idade você nem começou a vida.

    Mude o que te incomoda.

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11. Opening-Cantaloupe56

    Mart 7, 2026 - 1:49 am

    You’re dwelling on the PAST, THE WASTED TIME WHICH YOU CANNOT TURN BACK. So now, do focus on the solution because this TAKES TIME JUST LIKE WHAT YOU DID SCROLLING.

    Boring life- 20s is for figuring your life. Make mistakes, try everything.

    No friends- get a friend. How? It takes time, hours, days, years but if you take the first step NOW, maybe you’ll have a friend by next year.

    No career-just try one thing then if you don’t like it, quit until you see something that resonates

    Books that helped me: atomic habits and how to win friends and influence people. Also, therapy helped

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