Do you own thing

Maybe, but don’t assume it.

“do your own thing” plus a smirky emoji can be suggestive. It can also just be teasing. The smirk is what makes it ambiguous. So the honest read is:

• possible innuendo: yes

• certain sexual hint: no

The mistake would be acting like it is definitely sexual and replying too hard. That is how guys make a normal flirty moment weird.

Best move is to answer in a way that works either way. Light, playful, not explicit.

Good examples:

• “crazy wording there lol”

• “smirk emoji is doing a lot of work here”

• “my own thing? that sounds suspicious”

• “you say that like you mean something else lol”

Those let her clarify or escalate if she wants. If she meant it sexually, she will usually lean in. If she did not, you can both laugh and move on.

What not to do:

• jump straight to explicit sexual talk

• ask “are you telling me to jack off?”

• overanalyze it in the chat

• act shocked or desperate