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38 yaşındayım, beÅŸeri bilimler alanında iÅŸe yaramaz bir derecem var ve kesinlikle hiçbir geçmiÅŸ deneyimim yok. Herhangi bir iÅŸe baÅŸvurmaktan çok utanıyorum. Korkarım hayatım sona erdi. GeçmiÅŸ deneyim eksikliÄŸini açıklamak için iÅŸverene ne gibi bir mazeret sunabilirim? EÄŸitimimi 22 yaşında tamamladım ve o zamandan beri iÅŸsizim ve her zaman ailemle yaşıyorum. Önümde bir ışık göremiyorum. (Güney Avrupa’da yaşıyorum)

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  1. mistressusa
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    So what have you been doing? Taking care of elderly relatives is “experience”. So are raising children and volunteer work. Or do you mean you’ve been bed rotting in your childhood bedroom being supported by your parents?

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  2. melodyze
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    You have like 20 years left in an avg career and are only like 16 years into an avg career at that age. 20 years is enough time to do pretty much anything, you just have to be very intentional about what you want out of that time.

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  3. JLandis84
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    It’s never too late, but it’s going to take drastic action to change things.

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  4. cloverthewonderkitty
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    38 is not too old to change trajectories. But you need to provide more info – when did you graduate? What have you been doing since graduation? How have you been surviving at 38 with no experience? Your post is too vague as it stands for anyone to give helpful advice

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  5. SpiritualState01
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    There was a time when I was in a similar position. I was literally just too ashamed to apply for jobs because I was so deeply uncertain, lacking confidence in my skills and abilities. I falsely presumed that everyone else had it figured out, and that I was uniquely incapable and useless, soon to be a homeless dreg that everyone long abandoned.

    A lot of this kind of thinking is very deeply warped. The fact is that almost nobody feels like they have it together, like they have clarity or direction on their future, and everyone is experiencing overwhelming doubt who isn’t in a position of extreme luck or, more likely, privilege via inherited wealth. We have a society that actively awards sociopathic traits.

    So the first thing is to recognize that you are not as bad as you think you are, and other people aren’t as good as you think they are. Yes, it will be a challenge. But you have to decide whether you want to live or simply give up and die.

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  6. Silver-Foot-259
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    Do you have hobbies? What are your interests? 

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  7. RProgrammerMan
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    Maybe you will have to accept doing some kind of blue collar work.

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  8. Kind_Clock7584
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 10:13 pm

    Never too late to begin again.

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