Lol bu alt lanet berbat

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1. cousinralph

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   As a person who posts on the depression subreddit I totally agree.

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2. Quinjet

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   I actually see people get help in this sub. But it’s /r/findapath, not /r/wallowinmisery. You have to give people something to work with.

   I’ve tried before with the gloom and doom posters here, and a lot of times, that demographic doesn’t seem to really want actionable guidance so much as to air grievances.

   I do think venting is valuable, but I’m not going to waste my time on writing a response for someone unless they really want the help.

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3. -TaxEvasion

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   Most people on this sub are trying to find a path, people who’ve already found theirs aren’t on this sub.

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4. robertoblake2

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   People who try to give genuine advice get downvoted by people who are just looking for validation instead of actual helpful guidance

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5. Dear-Response-7218

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   This sub is a good resource for people who are realistic and willing to put in effort. I’ve had people reach out weeks/months later and say they’re moving in the right direction, found a job or in school etc.

   What’s not helpful is the people who post things like: “How do I get a 6 figure remote job with no relevant education or experience” “never had a gf no friends my life is doomed” Better to just ignore those.

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6. jobs_pa_ah

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   I’ve offered help to a couple of people so far. I’m not depressed. I am trying to find my new path, but I’m not depressed.

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7. bighugzz

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   It’s the same useless advice, people who haven’t experienced the current job market keep touting ng as if they know what to do

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8. Specialist-Bee8060

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   Yep, I am also depressed and can confirm this 

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9. Talinn_Makaren

   Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

   I think the truth is there are a lot fewer realistic and somewhat lucrative career options than we’d like to admit. Software development, trades… Military (in America at least). Outside highly competitive and specialized fields that’s basically it. Which is cold comfort to anyone who isn’t exactly looking for those fields. And, frankly, by the time someone engages deeply in a search for what’s next they’ve already heard of coding and plumbing.

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10. Senel720

    Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

    I feel like I vented more than anything in my own post here. But to be honest, just writing it out felt pretty good even without any feedback!

    We all will find a path eventually and who knows maybe the right person will see someone’s post at a later time and give insight or you’ll read over feedback given to another redditor in a different thread that 100% applies to your situation.

    Good luck all the same!

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11. Onemoredonutplease

    Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

    I agree.

    This sub showed up in my feed one day and it kept showing up.

    This sub has a lot of people who are just in a bad place and they just sort of let it all out here.

    Like who would visit this place often? Super successful people? Probably not. It’s just more people looking for help than wanting to offer help. I have wanted to offer some advice but then I realize it probably won’t help because the poster is so set on being miserable. Like the posts of 25 year olds feeling like the world is over. Like you’re 25 you have time. It’s just up to you to make something happen.

    No offense even your post has this negative vibe like many of the posters here. Sure you got to vent. Now what. Nothing is gonna change.

    This isn’t like other subs where there are like minded people that can share info on things like stocks or investing.

    It’s a place for mainly people who are lost. Or struggling. They have no advice to offer others. They just want help. From people that are also lost (for the most part).

    I just read it on occasion if I see an interesting heading like yours out of curiosity. To sort of study people in a way.

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12. Southern_Fox3848

    Ağustos 31, 2025 - 7:58 am

    The only advice people give is “join the military”

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