İşe yaramaz bekarlar ve tembeller var

24F yani İngilizce diplomam var, sonu olmayan bir işte çalışıyorum, ailemle yaşıyorum ve fena halde depresyondayım.

"Sadece terapi al!" ON YILDIR TERAPİ GÖRÜYORUM. Psikolojimin beni deneyecek ilaçları bitti. Hiçbiri çalışmıyor. Hiçbir şey yardımcı olmuyor. Bana depresyon ve anksiyete teşhisi kondu ve 14 yaşımdan beri bu durumdayım.

Yani evet, haftada sadece 40 saat çalışmak isteyen üzgün, tembel, motivasyonsuz bir kaltağım. Bir yılı aşkın süredir perakende olarak çalışıyorum, yeni iş bile aramıyorum. Yüksek lisans yapmaya çalıştım ama motivasyon eksikliğinden dolayı hemen okulu bıraktım. Üst düzey okulların bana göre olduğunu düşünmüyorum.

Temel olarak haftada 40 saatlik kolay bir iş nedir? Eğitim boyunca seni nerede tutuyorlar? Para kazandırsa güzel olur.

ABD’de yaşıyor bu arada.

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  1. Own-Ease-5409
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    Be an English teacher, tutor, editor, etc. I wouldn’t say this is a useless degree

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  2. Dear-Response-7218
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    There really isn’t a magic bullet to give you motivation, you have to decide that for yourself everyday. So your goal is a stable job that pays you a living wage? The basic way to get hired somewhere is education + experience + connections. An English degree isn’t really a lead in to anything directly, and your experience is retail, that means you’re reliant on industry connections. If you don’t have those, then you need some type of training.

    Masters in education would give you a stable teaching job. Accounting/finance tend to have good job prospects. Non college options are there as well, trades or shorter term medical programs. You’ve really got a lot of options, it comes down to you sticking with it. Definitely understand how hard depression is, just have to fight it. It’s totally possible for you to be in a completely different situation and financially independent in a year or two.

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  3. SirOssis
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    58 yo English major:
    I got out of retail into accounting. Got my weekends and holidays off and sat in front of a computer all day. I finished my weekly work by lunch on Wednesdays and coasted the rest of the week.

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  4. usa-chann
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    therapy for 10 years and u still feel super depressed? what are your social circles like? do you feel like you have friends? are your friends hard working and motivated or are they party animals? surrounding yourself with friends and people who have the same ethics and determination as you that you can also share some good and fun moments with can do wonders.

    we are social creatures, we crave friendships, relationships and love. figure out what your goals are and surround yourself with people who encourage and motivate you

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  5. StanislasMcborgan
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    English major in need of an easy job and a jolt to the ol’ system? Get a TEFL/TESOL certification and teach English somewhere like South Korea, look up resources for which countries are paying best right now.

    I did it in my 20’s and it rocked. Completely changed my perspective on a lot of things, saved a little money, met new people, ate new food.

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  6. Careful-Maximum-3361
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    Not much of that around. Most places want you to sacrifice the world for them and give you nothing. They want to be priority over even a person’s family but also accept you are nothing and replaceable to them. Outside of finding your own simple business to start up like resale items or something super easy you just have to go to the mail for orders…idk.

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  7. Old_Discipline4538
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    Like other guy said, teacher is not a bad option

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  8. NbaAndMusic
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    law school

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  9. jamesishere
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    You need to identify what you actually want in life. Then you will be motivated to achieve it. It doesn’t sound like you have much of a goal other than to make more money with minimal effort

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  10. master_bator47
    Ekim 20, 2025 - 7:50 am

    Just goon💔🥀

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