Ekim 3, 2025
İlk işimi aldım ve bundan nefret ediyorum, ne yapmalıyım?
Bugün ilk işimde üçüncü günümdü ve korkunçtu. Dün yarısında yaptığım kadar çok iş yaptım, ama yöneticim küçük bir hata bulacak ya da benimle her konuştuğunda daha hızlı yapmamı söylerdi. Yirmi saatlik bir deneyime sahip olmama ve hayatımın neredeyse yarısında bu tek yerde çalışıyor olmasına rağmen, her şeyi olabildiğince etkili bir şekilde yapabilmemi bekliyordu.
Beni gerçekten yanlış bir şekilde ovuşturdu, özellikle de her zaman böyle bir şey söylemeyi hissettiği için, "Eğer doğru yapmazsan, o zaman kurumsal bana kızacak"sanki çalışmadaki tek amacım onu ​​patronuna iyi görünmesini sağlamak. Belki bir şaka yapmaya çalışıyordu, ama bu şekilde çıkmadı.
Öğle yemeğimi tuvalette ağlayarak geçirdim. Mağaza katına geri döndüğümde, bayılacağımı ve tuvalete atılacağımı hissettim. Bundan sonra daha iyi hissetmedi, bu yüzden işten erken ayrıldım.
Çalışma her zaman böyle mi olacak? Bunalmış, bitkin ve genellikle sefil hissediyorum. Bir parçam sadece bir sonraki vardiyamdan önce bırakmak istiyor. Bunu hayatımın geri kalanında yapmak zorunda kalacağım fikri beni son derece endişelendiriyor.
Bu yaşamaya değer bir hayat gibi görünmüyor. Artık evde ve yatakta olduğum için rahatlayamıyorum, çünkü birkaç gün içinde işe geri dönmeyi hayal ediyorum.
Etiketler:
Whoa. Hold up with that not worth living stuff. Shake it off.
If you have a horrible manager it is. A great manager makes all of the difference. What is your job doing? I’ll see if I can help think of other options.
Well, you get used to it because it’s life dude. That’s how it is a for all of us. Bosses are almost always dicks and the work is always something you’d rather not be doing. The quicker you accept things the way they are the quicker you can get on with it. While you work there look for another job that’s how most of us manage.
Accept it
Of course working won’t always be like it is the first week. Once you know what you’re doing and can do it efficiently and without mistakes, it will be less stressful for you and your manager will likely back off a little. Generally, entry level and low level jobs pretty much suck, which is why most people move up from them. The only way working will always be like that is if you constantly quit and have to start over in the training phase again and again before it gets easier. It’s usually easier to find better jobs with more experience.
You can’t let your job have this much power over your life. At the end of the day, she’s just another person and it’s just a job. She can’t hurt you and she can’t ruin your life. Just keep doing things at your pace the best you can. If you want, you can start looking for another job. Don’t let it bother you because in the grand scheme of your life, this is only going to be one short chapter. You are not going to stock shelves at the grocery store for your entire working life unless you choose to.
This is your very first job. You are not going to be doing it forever.
As you said, you are just learning. You can remind your manager of that when she makes those statements. And no, your sole purpose isn’t to make her look good. But you doing your job properly is a reflection on her management. So it is important, even if she’s phrasing it poorly.
I would suggest taking a breath, giving yourself a break, and reminding yourself every day that you are learning and that you will do your best every day.
I would not recommend quitting after just three days. You don’t have a feel for the job yet. And every job has its unpleasant parts and unpleasant people.
Over time, you gain perspective and learn to manage those. You’ll learn what’s an annoyance and what is a dealbreaker for you. You learn when to speak up and be assertive and when to let things go. But you really can’t determine those things when you’ve never worked before. It takes time and self awareness that you can only get through experience.
Are you working for this type of guy.
https://youtu.be/tHxf17yJsKs?si=mG3oackm-VhQzpO7
But in the Marines there is a reason for this type of training.
You can quit, it is easy to quit, or you can learn to improvise, overcome, and adapt.
Watch this movie, Full Metal jacket.