Hayattaki diğerlerinden ne kadar geride kaldığımı nasıl iyi hissedeceğimi bilmiyorum

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1. bnaylor04

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   Mechanical Engineering is a good degree to have.

   Listen mate, comparison is the thief of joy. There will always be people who are doing better than you and there will always people who are doing worse. Everything is a matter of perspective.

   If you know where your next meal is coming from, you’re doing better than like 1/4 of the world. In terms of employment, the average age a person changes careers is 39. Many people are still figuring it out at your age.

   I think beyond basic financial independence, the most important thing to do is figure out what would make you genuinely happy. What you want in a partner, an area you can call home, how you make money, etc. Then from there, figure out what career would get you there and just work like hell to achieve it

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2. comedyfan72

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   I know exactly how you feel, and what you’re going through. I’m trying to figure my life out too at 33.

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3. VacationNo5622

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   This happens to people of all ages. Trust me, the vast majority of those overly successful people have their own inner turmoil that they have to deal with too.

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4. Radiant-Mistake-2962

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   Nah, try moving to a different city for a job in ME.

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5. That-Fee-2588

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   Hey I am sorry to hear that you are going through that.

   1. You have to start working like ASAP and I do not care if that means working fast food.

   2. You know you can do better and I want you to take ownership of that.

   3. Are you in the gym?

   4. How is your dating life?

   5. What are job opportunities you can pursue as a mechanical engineer?

   I will help as best as I can but I need you to be honest and help me unpack what is going on. You can do this bro. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. I’m here.

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6. Lonely_Shoe_3828

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   I think feeling lost is a pretty universal feeling in the state of the world right now. The economy sucks, there’s no jobs, and everyone is lonely. I’m 22 so I know I’m probably not qualified to give advice, but I just wanted to say that I can relate to that feeling. I know some people around your age who are in very similar circumstances. The reality is that everyone is in very different stages in life despite age. I know people my age who have graduated university and gotten great jobs, and I know even more people who dropped out of school and have no idea what they want to do with their lives. Feeling behind and comparing ourselves is a natural response, but you need to remember that there really is no behind or ahead, it’s all artificial.

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7. XYZ_Ryder

   Eylül 9, 2025 - 4:30 am

   Life’s story book that’s it, we are here for a certain amount of time, go write a story

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