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1. WorldTallestEngineer

   Ocak 1, 2026 - 12:00 am

   You haven’t seen all there is yet. There are amazing things experiences and opportunities out there.

   If you don’t like where to are, find something new.

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2. CerebralAssassin88

   Ocak 1, 2026 - 12:00 am

   Work the crappy job to afford the things and hobbies you enjoy. Play board or video games, read books, watch tv and movies, play sports, start a collection of something, travel, get a pet, learn to cook, study to learn new skills…idk there’s so many things you can do with your free time that makes having a crappy job worthwhile.

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3. PocketofChrym

   Ocak 1, 2026 - 12:00 am

   There is more to life and your personhood than what you do to afford living. 

   It’s what you do with that living that should define you. 

   I tried the “nihilism” thing. Nothing matters it won’t get any better and if I have to live badly I refuse to work to do it. And not working quickly became a 24/7 job. I didn’t just lose the time I wasted getting wasted. I was borrowing time from my present self. Find a job you can tolerate with people who are pretty cool, and use the time in between to make a life worth living. 

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4. wolferiver

   Ocak 1, 2026 - 12:00 am

   Most people are about as happy as they want to be. If you don’t want to be happy, nothing will give you into a happy experience. But you might have something else going on, and thinking “happy thoughts” ain’t going to cut it.

   You sound low-level depressed. Please get a physical exam to make sure you don’t have a physiological problem causing this depression. If not, consider taking some antidepressants. Explain to your doctor that you get no joy from anything, and you’re just barely dragging your ass through the day, and you wonder what’s the point of living. Just as you’ve explained it here to us. The doc might prescribe some antidepressants and/or counseling. Don’t knock these things. I’ve taken both, and they can work wonders.

   What do you do in your free time? Anything? Or do you numb yourself out playing video games. (No shame there. You’re just doing what you have to in order to stay half way functioning.) Do your thoughts spiral into deeper and deeper negativity? Do you have trouble sleeping? Or do you sleep all the time? These are [symptoms of depression.](https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/symptoms-causes/syc-20356007)

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5. Papa-pwn

   Ocak 1, 2026 - 12:00 am

   That’s why I work a job that I love for people that I like. 

   Try it

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