Eylül 11, 2025
Gerçekten hayatın bir anlamını görmüyorum, nasıl bulabilirim?
Aylardır bir iş bulmaya çalışıyorum ve bu gerçekten tüm bunların ne olduğunu tam olarak sorgulamamı sağladı. Kaçınılmaz olarak nefret edeceğim asgari ücret işi almaya çalışmak, alt çizgisine birkaç dolar eklerse beni mutlu bir şekilde vuracak bir şirket için çalışarak, maaş çekimimin bir kısmını koyabilme ayrıcalığına sahip olmak için, gerçekten de gündüz saatlerce tıklamıyorum. "ilgi alanları" Bu noktada zar zor zevk alıyorum.
Mutlu değilim, bir iş bulmak neredeyse kesinlikle daha az mutlu olacak, ama yine de yapmak zorundayım. Anlamı nedir? Bunu ne için yapıyorum? Hiç daha iyi olduğunu sanmıyorum, tanıştığım neredeyse her orta yaşlı kişi sefil ve/veya ruhsuz görünüyor. Tüm bunlar, vücudumun ve zihnimin birkaç yıl sonra başarısız olacağı bir çağda emekli olabileceğim sözü için mi? Bunlardan herhangi biri neden yapmaya değer?
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Mate there’s something really important to keep in mind through your job search.
It has been proven that relationships provide more meaning than anything. Meaningful relationships provide more joy than wealth, fame, success, or anything else.
Work is important, and once you understand how your mind operates, you’ll find the right job and career path. But your job is not your point to life.
You matter, you are important, and the meaningful relationships you develop throughout your life will reinforce this belief in you.
It may not be much, but free to DM me if you ever feel low about yourself or your place in this world. I’m more than happy to talk to you.
Would you be willing to leave where you are and go work overseas, teaching English? If so that’s a viable option many of my friends have done and it gave them a wonderful life path – a consistent job, steady income, travel, experience, freedoms. And doing do may not be something you can just drop everything and do today – it might – but if it isn’t, it’s a goal you could work up to and look forward to.
Sometimes if life gets hard, you just gotta enjoy some good quality food.
Treat yourself, you deserve a well earned break, it’s never easy to continue the job hunting grind in the midst of world anguishes
I had a moment like this, lasted a few years. Clarifying my values (looking into what that actually means, how values work in depth, how they’re different to goals) and then setting short term goals in line with those core values (your North Star) can really help. It’s hard to find meaning in life if you don’t do small personally meaningful things, even just a couple can change everything
Neoliberalism is a spiritual dead end. Find a steady job that you can tolerate enough to attract a partner and start a family. That’s what humans are meant to do by and large. Do human things. Unplug as much as you can from this insane value system that is making everyone miserable and just focus on the relationships in your life.Â
It is YOUR LIFE and only YOU can find the point of YOUR LIFE
Do you know who you are? Not yr name, yr family, yr religion yr ethnicity – that is your identification. Question is KNOW YOU
Your personality, your character, your behavior your class your dignity your confidence your competence your level of education your knowledge your intellect your values your principles your empathy your education your life skills displayed your self help skills displayed your self development skills displayed your outreach your ability to put all of these virtues and walk tall and proudly live your life and YOU WILL NOT ONLY FIND THE POINT, YOU WILL PROUDLY EXPOSE IT TO THE WORLD.
Personality – Who are you?
WHO YOU ARE?
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE?
Its not your name, family, caste, religion, ethnicity – that is your ID. Question is who ae YOU?
Look within you thru the eyes of your soul your uniqueness, respect, honor, value, principles, attitude, dignity, integrity, empathy, humanity, spirituality, honesty, outreach, truthfulness, all of this evaluate in you and prepare a HONEST SINCERE profile
Being truthful in writing your profile is essential, people will know if you exaggerate as you interact it shows, then you will face insult and redicule.
It is YOU who has to study its YOU has to write exam it is YOU who have to go for interview IT US YOU WHO PERFORM THE JOB – POINT OF YOUR LIVING!!!
Are you READY to be EMPPLOYED? How will you justify that you DESERVE a job?
Yes, you DESIRE to have a job. Then show the EMPLOYERS you DESERVE to be hired
JOB SEEKERS – IMPORTANT LESSON
REMEMBER…
1. DEGREE: – what to do
Your Degree provides you the knowledge on the subject – “what to do”
2. INTELLECT; – How to do it
Your intellect provides you the abilities to implement use that knowledge – “How to do it”
3.”SKILLS – COMPETENCY & CAPABILITIES” builds CONFIDENCE to PERFORM
Your skills provides you the abilities to do it effectively, efficiently, productively, law abidingly, ethically, morally, providing not just “quantity” but also “quality:
Skills combine “what to do” with “how to do it” and provides results that can be both quantity and quality
4. PERSONALITY
To put all of the 3 issues into a package to present yourself to any employer or audience you call on your Personality- Who you are
Personality – Who are you?
WHO YOU ARE?
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE?
Its not your name, family, caste, religion, ethnicity – that is your ID. Question is who ae YOU?
Look within you thru the eyes of your soul your uniqueness, respect, honor, value, principles, attitude, dignity, integrity, empathy, humanity, spirituality, honesty, outreach, truthfulness, all of this evaluate in you and prepare a HONEST SINCERE profile
Being truthful in writing your profile is essential, people will know if you exaggerate as you interact it shows, then you will face insult and redicule.
It is YOU who has to study its YOU has to write exam it is YOU who have to go for interview IT US YOU WHO PERFORM THE JOB
IF you do not FIT. Will they hire you!!???