Aralık 31, 2025
Ebeveynlerini gururlandırmak isteyen aptal bir insan için kariyer.
20F yaşındayım ve erken yaşta orta yaş krizi yaşıyorum. Sonunda akıllı olmadığım gerçeğiyle yüzleştim. hiç de öyle.
Bu, ailemdeki insanların, benim böyle bir deneyimi olmayan tek kişi olduğumu düşünmelerine neden oluyor. "inanılmaz" kariyer, mühendis, doktor, avukat olmak… bu tür kariyerler.
şimdi hemşirelik fakültesinde son sınıftayım ve bundan nefret ediyorum, teorik olarak değil pratik olarak zorlandım? Evet. kesinlikle utangaç, kendine güveni olmayan, kendine güveni olmayan tipteki kişilere göre değildir.
Sorun şu ki, sadece akıllı değilim, aynı zamanda zengin de değilim (fakir de değilim), kendime hiç güvenmiyorum ve fiziksel olarak kabul edilebilir değilim (nonono gibi görünmekten, kısa olmaktan ve olduğunuzdan daha genç görünmekten bahsetmiyorum…) ki bu da mevcut günlük yaşamda sizi zor durumlara sokuyor.
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If you have such negative thoughts about yourself, no wonder why people will be looking down on you! Change your mindset and you will excel in life. Everything can be learned and taught. I definitely don’t see anything wrong with you at all. Also, at 20, you will not magically become rich. 19-21 is when people start their first year of college. You are not behind or missing anything at all.
Keep pursuing your bachelor’s degree and do a master’s degree in nursing or another major! Be kind to yourself and build your confidence. You deserve more 🙏🏻 and destined for great things. You don’t need to be a doctor to be a great person or help people.
Being “smart” is not an innate thing I’d first start with learning how to learn effectively. All of the qualities you listed here are not innate, they are learned. You are correct that being insecure, not confident, shy, and believing yourself to not be smart puts you at a disadvantage.
All of this can be overcome if you put your mind to it. Some people are born with these qualities but most of us aren’t. Start on a self-improvement journey and put your family’s judgements out of mind – that’s not what matters. Start with working on how you think of yourself.
The more we repeat things to ourselves, the more we believe them to be true – so start with trying to interrupt some of these negative thought patterns – is my recommendation.
Join the military then
there are so many different areas for nurse to work. you will find your place. complete your degree. you started it, now finish. then work a bit and reassess. how can you change career direction if you haven’t worked in a nursing field for a while. are you independently wealthy? don’t you need income?
You can always specialize in nursing and make even more money. I wish I did nursing lol
My grind job/career path was a necessary “evil” to get where I am. I had to walk before I ran you can say.
Got out of my corporate retail job at 29 and my pay started around 40k and ended at 70k range in today’s money. I rented my own place and had GF’s, went on trips, and eventually I was ready for a new challenge that I enabled in that time.
Step 1: stop saying that you’re stupid, dumb, or not very smart. You can think it if you want, but don’t ever say it out loud or in print.
Instead, try saying things like “I’ve had a hard time figuring out which direction I should go.” Or “I need to work on developing my self esteem.” Then work on those things.
You might consider openly asking your parents what are their hopes for you. I’m guessing that they don’t expect you to do something that you’ve labeled “amazing”; they probably just want you to be happy and fulfilled.
When parents see their children floundering with no direction or going in circles, they often default to suggesting career paths like the ones you mentioned. Because if you have no real preference for anything, at least you’ll be financially comfortable. It’s up to you to replace those options with some that you feel better about. But it sounds like your lack of confidence makes you scared of trying anything.
Join the military