NoMembership7829 Ocak 29, 2026

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AdriVoid

Ocak 29, 2026 - 8:11 am

Go to your Student Counseling Office and talk to someone there about these feelings and your issues, many schools have an amount of sessions free of charge. They suggest pursuing an adhd diagnosis, or otherwise point you to tools and resources. Id suggest, after that, if you are on probation and feel so miserable and aren’t seeing anything improve- take a semester leave of absence. Get genuine rest, consider what you want in a career and what it would take to get there. If college is whats needed, and if not what would be. If college, any major can get you career opportunity, for many its about selling skills not a direct path- but better to have an idea of what you like in life

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Nice-Willingness-869

Ocak 29, 2026 - 8:11 am

What I did was cram before every exam and show up on 2 hours of sleep. I got through my degree that way 😂.

Sometimes exams bring out that urgency and it makes you study harder.

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churro66651

Ocak 29, 2026 - 8:11 am

Maybe take a gap year if it’s allowed.

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manojbakshikumar

Ocak 29, 2026 - 8:11 am

Look all I would say is its upto u if u want to study tis degree otherwise also it’s upto u ur call but just don’t drop out of tis and take another degree and then there also u drop out it just adds to the misery u hve already been in.The problem is tat wat most people don’t realise is post Covid with the global recession ahead not many r getting a good job in fact just some days ago amazon fired 16000 employees in an accidental email tats how worse it is and one more thing is now not many people like to study since eall tat happened atleast the people who r in their teens or post it also literally many hve lost tat interest in studies and they make worst decisions by either taking gap years or take another degree and dropout from tat also so tats the main thing u need to understand tat if u can’t complete tis degree pls don’t take another degree bcoz by then u ll become more old and u can’t afford to be a burden on ur family and waste ur life so pls wake up and think of a job even if u r studying or not completely ur call but still tis is my advice

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lartinos

Ocak 29, 2026 - 8:11 am

I had to force myself to study and even with a pretty strong IQ I got a 2.5 GPA.

So I know the feeling, but my immaturity at the time probably had a hand in it too.

I was one of those people who excelled at workplaces, but school I didn’t care enough.

For that reason I went to a state school because I just wanted a B.A. from any school TBH- SUNY schools being so cheap at that time made it an easy choice.

So why aren’t you studying? Why did you pick an expensive school if you weren’t going to try?

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