Ben hiçbir hayatı, hiçbir motivasyonu olmayan bir zavallıyım

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1. Warm-Order-7379

   Ekim 26, 2025 - 12:16 pm

   I feel you. I’ve been there. 16-22 was like that for me, with only some breaks during that time.

   Things that helped me break patterns (over like 6 years) which allowed new things into my life, in no particular order of importance or suggestion:

   A social job where I was lucky enough to meet some friendly people

   Light psychedelic use

   Solo travel at hostels

   Moving out and living with a roommate I liked who was more sociable

   Basic grooming which allowed me to date someone

   Quitting video games and other activities which keep me indoors/disconnected

   Nothing is fixed really I’m still pretty antisocial but I’m not fearful of people or convinced they’re hateful like I once was. I can’t make friends on command but I can at least be in public and work a job or go to school or hold a conversation without driving myself crazy.

   Honestly if I were you I’d consider throwing my phone away. Or more realistically maybe just selling it and getting a dumbphone and starting to read books instead for entertainment. Do it in parks maybe. Or by the water front. You don’t need to talk to people or pay attention to them but it might help just to practice being outside more. Or if you need to go more slowly, podcasts/music in that setting so you can block the world out more. Then go to books so you can hear the world while you are also in your own. Then some day set the books down and just sit there and notice things.

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2. Mammoth_Elk_3807

   Ekim 26, 2025 - 12:16 pm

   Sigh. Stop. It’s really that simple. There’s no escape from your current predicament that doesn’t involve fundamental change. Oh, and substantial work. That’s just how it is. The earlier you start… the easier it’ll be. That’s it. That’s all. There’s nothing else.

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