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1. dylang58

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   Save up like $5000 and go backpacking through Asia for as long as you can

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2. Jesse4391

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   1. Quit your job with no backup plan and stop going to class.

   2. Spend your savings on everything you want in life, travel, see the world, party, do drugs, max out your credit cards, take out loans, spend it on etc, sleep with random people.

   3. Regret this for the rest of your life as this is not living, this is bad decisions. And this is how you ruin your 20’s and the foreseeable future.

   You are 21 and are approaching a career in something you aren’t interested in. Change careers, take another path. Rather than finding ways to “fuck up my 20’s”, find a different path and take it, find hobbies that interest you and perfect them, create new skills that will accompany you through the rest of your life. You are already ahead of the game simply with just a career ahead of you, and a full time job at 21. Many at your age would dream of your position.

   Don’t fuck up your 20’s. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. You never get those years back. You are fully capable of “living” life while working or going to school.

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3. Regular-Dirt2826

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   coke

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4. Ashwasherexo

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   have a kid

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5. WithdrawnMouse

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   Go on a few trips ?

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6. VampArcher

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   Become an alcoholic.

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7. Minute-Injury3471

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   Get a DUI! Shit changes real quick.

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8. Poo_Pee-Man

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   Just chill and play video games

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9. Ambitious-Moose-4918

   Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

   Every year my city gets a new patch of 20 year old blonde kids who literally sit on the sidewalk and do the whole homeless bid.

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10. 1g0atm1lk

    Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

    Hm, sounds like we just gotta trade lives, then. My life sounds exactly what you’re looking for: 
    – moved to random state alone at 18 with no savings or license away from abusive family
    – moved into apartment with discord pedo who groomed me for years, realized he was a pedo and gross after meeting him, said fuck that and just skadaddled 
    – have established myself here without any career or job, really, by just meeting random people and living with them for the most part. Met my current partner underneath a bridge while I was longboarding
    – She is over 20+ years older than me! She’s really cool though! 
    – I get my coworkers and random men outside stores to buy cigarettes and alcohol and weed for me because I’m a cute girl and play it up! 
    – I don’t sleep with random people, at least, as I refuse to get a STD or pregnant! 
    – I got into an argument with my paranoid schizophrenic last random friend in the woods, and jumped into a freezing cold white water river in the middle of March! Luckily a rock stopped me from going downstream, and my friend saved me! We went back and just never discussed that happening! 
    – I became friends with an autistic man at this store, and he introduced me to his alcoholic Italian friend. We started casually dating and he pulled a gun on me for making a joke about a politician! Fun times! the car ride back was awkward
    – I almost got abducted into a cult, due to my naive gullible nature (am getting better)
    – Said paranoid schizophrenic friend got me to participate in an ” alien ritual” to ward off alien abductions or some shit. Apparently my friend can like channel their spirits, I don’t believe it in, but it’s fun to watch! 
    – Had a man in an weird car stalking me for weeks, and attempt to abduct me from the side of the road! Good times! I like to carry bear mace because of this. 
    – Went on a continuous all day bike ride one time because I was having an episode. I’m happy I seem to fixate so much on appearance and working out, as when I get crazy I tend to just over do these things instead of idk drinking a bunch. I like being in shape! 

    I’ve got way more stories, and these honestly are the tame ones! I’m only 20, so it sounds like my life is what you’re looking for! 

    My tips: hm, become mentally unstable and establish low self-esteem. Also get traumatized in some capacity. This will lead to doubting your intuition aka gut-feeling, placing a high value on physical appearance which grants me a lot of social opportunities, becoming impulsive (acting without thinking is truly the best thing for this lifestyle), being highly aware of social dynamics due to years of being awkward due to trauma, so in turn becoming a chameleon person! All of these factors, I believe, lead to a lot of the crazy situations I’ve gotten wrapped up in. 

    But what I would do for a life of stability and normalcy, is inexpressible on these small internet forum letters. However, due to said mental illness I’m unable to achieve it! It sucks being self aware but at least it’s fun! 

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11. coltrainjones

    Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

    I was gonna say get REALLY into drugs but I read the rest of the post and realized that’s not what you want

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12. Direct-Cat-1646

    Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

    Get addicted to vaping and doomscrolling lol. In all seriousness, find something you enjoy doing. Even if it’s small build on to it. I went from just enjoying my drive to becoming a little bit of an enthusiast, though not really

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13. GoodDrive2099

    Eylül 13, 2025 - 9:10 am

    Psychedelics, go on a life adventure 

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