Ocak 25, 2026
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SoÄŸuk ve sert gerçek, 20’li yaÅŸlarımın ortasındayım. Hiçbir deÄŸerli yeteneÄŸim yok. Hiçbir kurtarıcı özelliÄŸim yok. Temel insan iÅŸleyiÅŸi dışında pek bir ÅŸey bilmiyorum. Dışarı çıkmak isteyen kuzenim dışında bana yardım edebilecek bir ailem yok. Bir iÅŸim yok Bir iÅŸte iyi çalışamıyorum çünkü kısmen engelliyim SSI’ye hak kazanmıyorum Hiç gerçek bir üniversiteye gitmedim Sürücü ehliyetim yok Bir aracım yok Faturalara katkıda bulunmam gerekiyor Kendi yerimi almayı düşünmem gerekiyor Hayatımı çözmem gerekiyor Ama gerçek ÅŸu ki, burada olmam gerektiÄŸini hissetmiyorum. O adam gibi görünmeye çalışmıyorum. Ama eÄŸer hiçbir yeteneÄŸim yoksa ve para kazanamıyorsam, gerçekten kimseye ne sunabilirim? Sanırım buraya sadece varsayımsal soruyu sormaya geldim. EÄŸer benim yerimde olsaydın ne yapardın?
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Get my driver license and drive a bus for my local school district until I am old enough to collect the pension
Quit while you’re behind? Nonsense. You have 40+ years to develop skills. Start with your drivers license.
No idea, I’m in the same situation. wtf were our parents thinking? Oh wait they weren’t lol
Desperation and good decisions are often at odds.
You have your idea of self worth tied to your productivity. And that’s a loosing game.
I would say… First, learn some skill that may help you. Check out free resources like Santander open academy (it has self appointed courses to learn job and personal skills).
You can do that while looking for a job.Â
Second step: get to the basic. If you cannot contribute with money now in your living arrangement, put in the work. Clean well, learn how to make cheap, healthy and easy to store menus. Meal prep. Organize the life around you. Fix things that are an easy fix. Someone is teaching how to do it in YouTube.
Third step: reach out to your community. Talk to neighbors and clerks in stores. Ask if anyone knows of a job for you. Offer help if needed. Someone may help, you never know.
Fourth step, once you have a job, is to think how you would like to grow. Who you want to be. Do you wanna be remembered for being smart, handy, fun, loving, intelligent? Start cultivating that. And then, you follow your tools, as Hank Green said. You see your goal, you analize the gap between now and your goal, and then start working around what you already have.
But, you know, there is an old song from where I’m from that goes something like “la vida es una moneda/quien la rebusca, la tiene/ojo que hablo de monedas/y no de gruesos billetes”
Life is not “lifestyle”, nor luxury. Life is small, and sometimes harder than it should. But then, you put the meaning to your time, even if spite is your fuel.
There is always a learning process. It could be steep for you, but with enough attention and repetition, it will stick.
If your disability physical? Can you lift 50 pounds?