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1. abbyy007

   Aralık 8, 2025 - 10:50 pm

   Your soul is craving a plot twist. You’ve got the creativity and drive, staying comfortable won’t make your story worth reading. Time to start the life you actually want.

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2. momentograms

   Aralık 8, 2025 - 10:50 pm

   Do it! You are only this young once and it’s time for an adventure. It also sounds like the people around you are not bringing you up or challenging you. Do it!

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3. Kaleidoscope_306

   Aralık 8, 2025 - 10:50 pm

   Move away! Moving to a new place with no connections is easier than most people who haven’t done it think. I’ve done it twice.

   First, choose a city or cities you want to move to. I’m thinking a big city with artists and writers and a good economy. Maybe some filmmakers. I’d suggest visiting to make sure you like it. Then apply for jobs there. I’d aim for jobs in your field for now. It’s harder to apply as a nonlocal, so lie in your cover letter and resume and say you’re already planning on moving there. Maybe invent a significant other and say they just got a job there. As long as you do actually move once you get the job and don’t ask for any special consideration, it’s not unethical. Companies are just worried about people backing out. Meanwhile, save money for moving expenses and a deposit on an apartment. Once you get a job, load up your car with all your stuff and stay in cheap airbnbs while you apartment hunt. You can pack most things in trash bags. Clothes can be left on their hangers and thrown over the top. Commuting from an Airbnb is very doable. You don’t even have to unpack your car. You’ll have proof of income, so you should be able to rent an apartment easily enough. If not, maybe your parents would co-sign. Once you’ve moved into your new apartment, go to the DMV and get a new drivers license, register your car, and register to vote. Congratulations! You live in Big City now.

   One you’re settled in Big City, start making the life you want. Go out on evenings and weekends. Meet new people. Invite your favorites to do stuff with you. Get on the dating apps. Join a writing group. Go to the art studio’s open houses. Go to the art house cinema and talk to people. Look for Meetups you’d like. Maybe join a choir or community theater. Volunteer for something art related. Apply for creative jobs. Maybe even go to college for something creative, though I’d caution you to do your research first.

   You can do this! But you do need to move. The life you want is not possible in a small town.

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4. Appropriate-Tutor587

   Aralık 8, 2025 - 10:50 pm

   You don’t need to date in your 20s if you haven’t accomplished anything for yourself. Enroll in college to work towards a degree, that should be your priority instead of dating. When you are a student, you can applying for internships and part time employment on campus or externally.
   Dump your l*ser friends and move to another state for better college and job opportunities.

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