Eylül 2, 2025
Yeteneği veya becerisi olmayan insanlar için herhangi bir iş var mı?
Merhaba 32m burada. Her nasılsa, herhangi bir beceri veya yetenek geliştirmeden hayat boyunca yaptım. Denemenin eksikliği için değil ama hiç sahip olmadım "tıklamak" İnsanların tarif ettiği. Asla o anı ya da epifani yoktu "Oh bu yapmalıyım" insanların bahsettiği. Hayır, hayatta yararlı bir beceriye veya yeteneğe sahip olmayı başaramadım. Kendimi iyi düşüneceğim tek şey yemek pişiriyor, ama restoran endüstrisinde zamanımı yaptım ve buna değmez. Birçok şey denedim ama çoğunda zorluk çektim. Beynim matematiği anlayamıyor. Aslında aşırı karmaşık olan herhangi bir şey bunu anlamakta zorlanıyorum. Bilgisayarlar veya teknoloji konusunda iyi değilim. Sanatta veya yaratıcı bir şeyde iyi değil. Spor ve atletik hobilere çok fazla çaba harcadım, ancak yeteneksiz ve koordine kaldım. Bu yüzden sadece yapışan bir şey arıyordum ve uzun zamandır iyi olabilirim ve hiçbir iş bana gerçekten göze çarpmıyor ya da bana ilginç veya tatmin edici olarak konuşmuyor. Benim gibi insanlar için yetenekleri veya becerileri olmayan iyi işler var mı?
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You could try security. Depending on the sector and company you work with you can make decent money with not much effort. Definitely above minimum wage. I currently work as a security officer and make $25/hr. it’s a do nothing job and most of the job feels like a giant break with simple paperwork in between.
Become a poker dealer depending where you live the low end pay is usually no less than $25hr and higher ends is $40hr (including tips) only thing you need to know is basically be able to deal Holdem Omaha and stud and you can basically move anywhere in the country with a poker room and be almost guaranteed a job that pays $25-$40hr.
Just try to keep in mind that most people are learning on the fly. Search for an area that you wouldn’t hate and start applying, regardless of your skills. Most things can be taught and all you really need to do well is drive and confidence. It’s crazy when you realize how many people are actually faking it until they make it. They just had the audacity to go for it. You never know what hidden talents and passions can pop up in the right environment. Maybe narrow down some industries you’re interested in and then go from there. You’ve got this!
I’m back in school for business at a community college at ripe ol age of 31 and I’m currently taking financial accounting. I was intimidated at first because i was like OH GOD MATH I GOTTA BE GOOD AT MATH BUT I FUCKING SUCK AT IT but nah it’s basically adding and subtracting and attention to detail so far. College classes are really good at breaking things down at the fundamental level at the beginning and building things up. I’m just throwing my 2 cents as someone who just got burnt out of my profession and doing something completely new that I’m not even remotely “talented” at
I do sales not because I’m magically good at selling or had some aha click moment, but because I like money and if I’m going to work a job doing something I dont care all that much about, it should bring the greatest return it can.
Fast forward like 7 years and now I make a comfortable living, and am pretty good at sales, and work a normal amount of hours.
Stop looking for some magical skills and inspiration, just pick something that fits the life you want, and do it.
serious question – do you think the skills that other people have just dropped from the sky onto them?
it has never been easier to learn skills, with the whole internet laid out before you. you can quite literally do whatever you want. grappling with having no skills starts with taking accountability for your own choices. be real with yourself and say just because i haven’t learned anything worthwhile in the past, does not mean i can’t learn something worthwhile now.
commit to learning something new this week. something really attainable. don’t get frustrated when you’re not instantly perfect at it, learn to be teachable and ask for help. you’re already on reddit, so pick out a skill you want to learn with a subreddit. ask for help when you need it. then work your way up from there.
once you have some confidence in your ability to learn, it’s a lot easier to scale upward and conquer bigger challenges. but you have to start somewhere. i just finished my first quilt entirely learned on youtube, and it was the best feeling ever. you can go do the same or something else. the world is out there waiting for you to harness your ability to learn.
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Ever consider a health occupation? I became a certified nursing assistant and really enjoyed it. No talent required, just being nice to the sick and the elderly.
Either I’m dumb af or there aren’t jobs for people with talent and skills either because I feel like I’ve got a few. Yet I can’t seem to land a job outside of food service in my 30s. College degree, multiple jobs with leadership experience, 4.0 GPA. None of it matters.
I want to offer advice, but I don’t know that I’m equipped to outside of just tailoring your resume to each job posting.
If you are a responsible adult and athletic you can be a firefighter, especially a wildland firefighter.
You’re doing it backwards. You need to work on developing talents / skills before you can even be exposed to a whole lot of work that may “click” with you.
You need to ask yourself what your innate strengths are. Are you smart? Are you organized? Are you creative? Are you focused? Are you flexible etc… Then once you figure that out go focus on skill building in those areas, you can use sites like Khan Academy / Udemy to train on skills cheaply and even prep you for professional certifications.
I’ve got friends who took Salesforce Admin cert courses on UDEMY then went and took the cert test and landed 6 figure jobs without degrees in just a few months. Not saying that’s the avenue for everyone but it’s certainly possible.
Oh wow Bill first off I have to say I love you. I think you are the smartest and funniest man I know. Anytime I talk to you I feel better about myself and about the world. You are so knowledgeable about everything. And I’m so stingy always worried about myself because you always seem to have an answer for myself I will be sure and pay better attention to yourself from now on. If you catch me concentrating on myself anymore you say hey what about myself please please say that to me. I know you’ve been having a hard time of it lately but please look at yourself like I do and I know plenty of other people do as well. You’re one of the good guys you care about others and you care about others problems. You put others before yourself which sometimes isn’t a good thing but that’s just who you are. So I don’t really know what more to say except that world here is Bill and Bill is the kindest most empathetic man I have ever met in my life. So let’s give a big cheer and applause for Bill. Love you man.
The biggest determinate of success and failure is the ability to persevere in sticking with one thing for a long time long enough to become an expert and then valued by society in that people will actually pay you for your knowledge/skills. Typically, those who have no talent/skills give up on things too early before they reach enough mastery to be worth anything jumping from one thing to the next. It doesn’t matter if you are dumb ass the only difference is that it might take you 10 years to reach mastery/valuable state versus someone with a really high IQ can do it in 2 years. Although a lot of people’s difficulty in learning is related to how they learn(how you learn a skill to) they don’t follow a systematic approach they are just doing whatever when they feel like it and it is very inefficient compared to those who are more systematic. My suggestion, would be to look at what sorts of things you find the most bare able or least bad and that would be the least friction path. Assuming it is economically viable as well.
If you’re not interested in anything chase the money, get an education or training in a field that makes bank and you can tolerate asap.
Why is the official hims account in the comments lmao