Oral Sex is utterly Disgusting and should be seen as Freakish ,not Vanilla.

I have never understood why Blowjobs and Cunnilingus are seen as mainstream and normal sex acts. Considering how utterly disgusting and one-sided it is ,these acts should be seen as the same way a Kink or fetish is seen. Like BDSM or Pissplay. Something that is utterly gross and weird and not something that is perfectly normal and even expected to do or ask for. It's a sex act that makes little sense both from an obvious point of view and from a sexual point of view ,yet people somehow do it?

First of all the act itself it literally disgusting. You are putting someone's genitals into your mouth and swallowing their fluids. That is utterly disgusting and gross. Would you lick someone's feet or eat off the floor or share a Drink with someone or lick their snot? If you wouldn't then why would you give someone oral considering putting someone's genitals into your mouth is far more gross? Even if its washed its still utterly disgusting and is appalling to ask someone to do it. The spit ,the fluids ,the hair ,its utterly repulsive to even think about yet people do it as simply as brushing their teeth.

The Second reason is because the Giver receives literally no Pleasure from it. Not only is it disgusting to do but you don't even gain actual physical pleasure from it unlike Normal Sex Acts. There is no Sexual Receptors in the Mouth so you literally cannot feel any sexual pleasure from Giving. It benefits purely the Receiver not the giver. Unlike PIV Sex only one person gains pleasure from it and its wholly useless for the person giving to do it. "Oh but I gain pleasure from seeing my partner being satisfied!" then why do you insist that people reciprocate if that's the case then? If its so good for you then why don't you simply be happy giving and not receiving?

Third because it is degrading and Humiliating. There is a reason "suck my dick" is an Insult and why most people find putting genitals onto a person's face as degrading. People literally view it as a degrading act and yet you not only expect people to do it but be enthusiastic about it?? Fuck no. Someone is clearly being dominated and degraded and that turns me off far more even if its pleasurable.

Now I know there are gonna be alot of people that will say stuff like "Don't tell others how to live their lives!" or "its none of your business!". And I'm like of course you have the right to do these things ,I'm just gonna view you as weird for doing it and won't do it myself. "Oh but its intimate and a sign of love!" there are plenty of ways to show love including plenty of other sex acts that don't involve sticking someone's peehole into your mouth.

And before anyone says anything ,NO I am not a Prude. I have a Great Sex life and I think sex is an amazing thing. But Sex is supposed to be a MUTUALLY pleasurable experience for both people and oral sex is literally the least pleasurable thing for the giver involved. There are plenty of ways to get your rocks off that don't involve putting someone's genitals in your mouth.

EDIT: Yikes. Seeing all the negative comments and replies really shocked me. Seems like I struck a nerve and many people assume I'm somehow a Prude puritan who wants to ban all non-PIV intercourse. Which is not true. Plus I get a LOT of Ad hominems ,proving I'm clearly right about this. But I want to re-iterate. An Act that is historically and literally centered around the degradation and subjugation of a person cannot be Good in any way. You can use arguments like "your immature" or "well my partner and I love it" and it does not disprove my point AT ALL. If you enjoy the act ,good for you! Just recognize it is clearly a disgusting and problematic act and don't try and attack others who point it out. You loving an act doesn't mean others do and doesn't negate my Points which by the way NONE OF YOU HAVE DISPUTED.

And its Ironic how people claim I am somehow attacking people ,when its clearly people who are attacking me and my opinion calling me all sorts of names quickly. Almost like its the other way around eh? And anyone who questions this disgusting act is quickly attacked and seen as a prude.