Ekim 23, 2025
Not kaygısı ve gelecek.
Bu benim ilk dönemim, ABD’de yaşıyorum ve Ä°ngilizce ikinci dilim. Avrupa’da yüksek lisanstan mezun oldum ve sanırım sınıfın en düşük notlarını ben aldım… Yüksek öğrenime devam etmedim. Buraya taşındım. Sonra evet, yıllarca oyunculuk yapmaya çalıştıktan sonra iÅŸe yaramadı, devlet üniversitesine gitmeye karar verdim. Ä°yilik yapmak istedim. 16 ünite aldım çünkü ancak tam zamanlı öğrenci olarak okul ücretini karşılayabilirlerdi. Ayrıca 2 yarı zamanlı iÅŸte çalışıyorum.
Baskı çok fazla. Egzersizlerde iyi iÅŸ çıkardığımı düşünüyorum, kesintiye uÄŸruyorum ve bunlar notunuzu çok düşürüyor. Bu derslerden bazıları çevrimiçi ve öğretmenler notunuzu düşürüyor, nedenini bile açıklamıyor veya iletiÅŸim bile kurmuyor. A notu alıp en iyi okula transfer olma fikrine takıntılı oldum… Sanırım diÄŸer her ÅŸey beni gerçekten hayal kırıklığına uÄŸrattı. O kadar çok stres yapıyorum ki, vücudum bitkin hissettiÄŸi için iÅŸten bile çaÄŸrıldım. Ve okulda konuÅŸacak kimse yok. Ayrıca aldığım derslerin özel dersi bile yok, bir dersi mantıksal düşünme, diÄŸer dersi ise politik tartışma dersi. Siyaset Bilimi ile ilgileniyorum ve bunun da faydasız olacağını düşünüyorum.
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Dude 16 credits and two part time jobs is no joke, I did 16 credits and ONE part time job (CNA) and that was a lot for me, also I was the main caregiver at home since I technically had more free time still than anyone else in the family, so I did the chores and groceries and stuff. I had no free time. I sort of know how you feel, for the most part though I don’t.
I will say, though, do you need A’s? Like, I’d seriously look into the universities that work best for you (NOT THE TOP RATED ONES), I’d also look at the poli sci job market, like how seriously do they look at school rankings? Where I live, I attend the #3 university for Nursing but in reality that’s just because that works for me cost and location wise, those factored more into it than school rankings. For Nursing, it doesn’t really matter what school you go to as long as it’s accredited. I’d say that would be Step 1.
I know this is cheesy but have you tried student orgs? Those have really helped me. Also if you’re religious try getting into the young adult ministry at the local church that goes with your denomination (I assume synagogues and mosques have something similar), when I’m really desperate I go onto Bumble (even though I’m single as a pringle LOL), they have an app called Bumble Friends and I’ve met a few friends through there. Lots of people use that particular app here in the States.
If neither of the above work to help in your situation, I’d say drop one of your classes. Pick one. The one that matters the least. If you’re brave enough, two. If you need to, apply for scholarships that just have an essay or something and don’t require that you be full-time. Those help a LOT. Or pick up more hours at work for tuition, see if the math works out to where it’s less than what you would be doing at 16 credits and two part-time jobs. Crunch out the math (if you get to this stage) and see what works for you.
Good luck!
I never called out of my jobs and my GPA was 2.5. It ended up meaning nothing because I was smarter and more ambitious than what teachers thought. It was my work at my part time jobs that ended being more important than my grades TBH.