Many women are often terrible at giving advice to sexually unsuccessful men

Many women are often terrible at giving advice to romantically and sexually unsuccessful men. Many women don't understand what online dating is like for men. Many women get hundreds of likes a day so they assume it's the same experience for men. If they were given control of a virgin brother or single male virgin friend's Tinder/Hinge/Bumble, they would be shocked at how difficult it is to setup a single date. The default advice on Reddit is to respect women, which is gaslighting to assume the reason a woman who has never met you is swiping left or right is because of respect and not physical attraction. The best personality in the world doesn't help you if you cant get a first date. Before, anyone says online dating isn't real life, it's become the most common way for new couples to meet. https://x.com/burkov/status/1843793993274143184

Many women talk very differently about dating and sex to each other vs men. There's this gem in a thread in TwoX where a college woman is asking for advice on how to get a one night stand with a guy who already has a girlfriend.

He's so fine, but blue pill women want us to think it's all personality and physical attractiveness is irrelevant or the cheating womanizer who already has a girlfriend is some exemplar of respect for women.

So what would be good advice. Eat healthy, go to the gym and lift weights. If you can afford it, get a personal trainer. Consider taking steroids or PEDS. Include a bio in your dating app profile, not because of what it says but because it demonstrates some minimal level of effort the other guys didnt do. Consider buying boosts on dating apps if after six months you're not even getting matches. I ended up spending probably 6-10k on Tinder boosts, but it ultimately paid off. At a minimum get the paid membership which allows you unlimited swiping and shows you every like your profile gets. If you're young and in school, take up a sport. Doesn't matter if you're jv and sit the bench, studies show athletes have more sexual partners. If you're young, join a fraternity when you go to college. Your frat bros will do their best to get you laid, or at the least make sure you get invited to lots of parties with tons of alcohol and horny women looking to get laid.