Ocak 16, 2026
Kendimi çok işe yaramaz hissediyorum
Ben 23 yaşında bir erkeğim ve şimdiden hayatımın sona erdiğini hissediyorum. Liseden mezun olduğumda ne yapmak istediğimden emin değildim bu yüzden işgücüne katıldım. Ya sonunda istediğim işi bulacağım ya da sonunda kariyerim hakkında bir karara varacağım umuduyla.
Ama bu asla gerçekleşmedi. Son 4 yıldır perakende sektöründe çalışıyorum ve bundan kesinlikle nefret ediyorum. Ancak uzun süredir perakende satış yaptığım için tüm becerilerim ve deneyimlerim perakende ile bağlantılı. Ve sorun şu ki diğer işler ya tamamen aynı ya da daha az maaş veriyor. Bu yüzden gerçekten ayrılamayacağımı hissediyorum.
Lisede gerçekten başarılı oldum ve sürekli olarak yüksek notlar aldım. Ancak üniversite hiçbir zaman ilgimi çekmedi çünkü derecelerin hiçbiri bana ilginç gelmedi.
Kendimi kapana kısılmış ve işe yaramaz hissediyorum. 12. adımda olmam gerektiğini hissediyorum ve bunun yerine 2. adımda takılıp kalıyorum. Kendimi o kadar işe yaramaz hissediyorum ki kaderim hayatımın geri kalanında perakende satışta çalışmak ve yalnız ölmek olacak.
Birisi bana memnuniyetle karşılanacak herhangi bir tavsiye verebilirse lütfen.
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Maybe look at picking up welding? Its usually paid per piece done though so you dont start raking it in until you get pretty fast at it. Ignore the military recruiter bozos
If it helps I’m 23 with a Masters degree and completely lost and hopeless. I have no money and where I live there aren’t any jobs for my degree (chemistry) and I just need a simple job (like retail funnily enough) to get by but feel like I can’t even do that and am struggling to find anything. Hope things work out for you though, you’re young and life is fucking hard give yourself a break, I know I could use one.
I’m 23. Just graduated with my bachelor’s and also working retail.
im 27F and dont see myself ever using the degree my parents made me get. i feel guilty but i just dont see the point. my parents always took office life home with them. im not gonna be a slave to work in the same way. retail is fairly anonymous and it starts and stops at the workplace door so thats where im comfortable.
You have hit a road block. Time to expand your skills level. Study something related to retail. Move up the supply chain industry, your perspective will be different.
dont worry its not you, its the job market. Nobody can really move up, just sideways.
id say your best bet is to work on a side hustle like power-washing or landscaping or even flipping abandoned storage units if you have the room to keep stuff laying around.
side hustle and work part time and you will have job security with a little extra freedom.
if you do really well on the side hustle you can turn it into a business of your own and hire people to do it for you. but thats just as much or more work than a regular job so take that with a grain of salt.
main thing to remember is there are a lot of people in the same boat. its not your fault.
Have you thought about applying to the post office? You usually have to start as a mail carrier, but there are other positions you can advance to,it pays decently especially when there’s overtime, and there’s a pension plan.
You’re fine! You are only 23. I would suggest joining the military.
I truly sympathize with your situation, especially when I haven’t done enough that I should’ve before. However, I’m currently about to get started with driving for Amazon (a couple of months) before I officially commit to the US Coast Guard midway through the year. I’ve done some substitute teaching and can manage through the bs of kids behaviors, but will show up for the sake of ensuring they can get through their assignments.
Depending on wherever you’re based in, I would suggest looking into teaching as a sub—regardless of whatever you might hear from Reddit or general opinions. It’s better to make attempts to go outside your comfort zone and apply your experience into stuff like that or whatever you wish. I’m rooting for you, no matter what.
have you thought about seeing if you’re depressed or have any mental blocks? i’m 23 and i got diagnosed with adhd recently. im in college and taking classes but ive been in college for a while now. not any easy journey but sounds like you have nothing you want to do or like but you have to eventually pick something if you care enough to for the future down the road, i feel like getting mentally clear would be the first step.
Dm me I got a career/ job for you the United States Army has over 150+ jobs to choose from also benefits like the gi bill after 3 years you will be eligible for 36 months of paid schooling and you get paid to attend school you can use the army as a stepping stone to success! Within the 3 years you’ll have a chance to travel as well!