Help, people of copypasta

I'm 19 years old, the eldest child, and a university student. This was probably the third time i got caught with a vape. each time it was dumber than the other.

The first time it was his vape, I used it in the bathroom (his bathroom) and left it open, two seconds later he opened the door, snatched it, screamed at me, and later gave me a lecture as i lied to him that his vape was the first one i tasted because of curiosity.

Second time I was in another bathroom, took sometime, came out, found him infront of me, checked my pockets (he was suspecting me heavily), found nothing, checked my waistband, got busted, took it away, and again screamed at me and later gave me a lecture and I told him sorry about that it happened, I noticed that he took a more gentle approach this time.

Third time which was an hour ago, I kept the vape in my pocket, was chillin in the kitchen, he called me, I went, asked what i was doing, told him just chillin, looked at the pockets, saw sometimes, asked what do you have, i said just airbuds, touched my pocket, found the vape, screamed at me, left for his work, 10 minutes later he called me and told to go and shave my hair or I'm getting kicked out if the house (as a punishment apparently lol), started arguing calmly with him, closed on my face and now I'm writing this.

I need a solution for this situation. I really don't want to shave. Spent too long growing my hair.