Ağustos 14, 2025
Hayatta kaybolmuş hissediyorum, ne yapacağımı bilmiyorum
24 metre, yakında 25 yaşında, şu anda üniversitede okuyor, şu anda hiç bir işim yoktu ve hala ailemle yaşıyorum, üniversitede okuduğum alan çocukluğumdan beri tutkum oldu (ya da gerçek hayatta yapabileceğim tutkuya en yakın olan) ve fizik ya da astronomi ile çalışacağım bir hedefim vardı, ama şimdi kursundan biraz daha fazlasını tamamladığım için, diğer insanlardan daha fazla şeyden daha fazla şey yapabildiğim için bitebildiğim için bitebildiğim için, failing most classes and it only get’s harder further on, I also noticed I might not be very fit to work as a researcher, I have many serious problems with concentration, motivation and organization and those are qualities that are needed for someone to be a good researcher, but they are also needed to be good at pretty much any profession, I really don’t know what to do if I drop out, my parents are already complaining about money for a long time, my therapy with a psychologist is showing results but you can never be sure, I Sadece ne yapacağımı bilmiyorum, ergenliğimi bulunduğum yere ulaşmak için feda ettim, hiç kimseyle bir ilişkim olmadı, hala bakire ve buraya gelip bitiremeyebileceğimi düşünüyorum.
Etiketler:
You’re not a failure for realizing the path your thought you wanted might not be the one you finish on.
That’s not wasted time— it’s information you didn’t have before. You’ve learned what the work is really like and where your strengths and struggles lie and that will help you make a better next move.
You’re not behind, you’re just at the part of your story where you pivot. Focus on moving forward in a job ready path, and work on yourself in ways that boost confidence— go to the gym, eat heathy, learn the art of small talk, try new hobbies, branch out. Once you feel good in your own skin, approaching girls (or guys) won’t feel impossible and relationships will come more naturally.
You are not alone, this is becoming the normal. Seriously just try to get any job at this point. World is f-ed up. Get a job and then start making a business plan. Try social media since it doesn’t cost anything upfront. Build a brand, gain audince. Or if you have a strong passion for a thing follow that. Maybe you go bankrupt but at least you’d be half happy 😁
Also if you are senior at college, get that degree.
i was a virgin until 22 and I havent had sex since I was 22. im a 29F and I havent had had sex only once in my life
What if you took a career assessment like careerexplorer.com (or testerly.com) and what fields are proposed for your talents and interests?