AÄŸustos 18, 2025
Bu ekonomide genç bir yetişkin ne yapmalı?
Ben (24) iş aramaktan çok sinirliyim. Aklıma gelebileceğim her şekilde başvurdum. Hala öğrenci olduğum için bu alt bölümlerde gizlendim. Birden fazla işte çalıştığımda bile bir daire alabilecek hiçbir şey almadım.
Sesli tavsiyeler duymamak, kendimi en iyi şekilde uyguladığımda kendimi kayıp bir neden gibi hissettiriyor. (Diğer gönderilerde nasıl yazdım.) Başvuruyorum, öğrendim, sertifikalar kazandım, döndüm, bir iş bulmak için mücadele ettiğimde bile ücretsiz iş yaptım.
Sayılar oyunu beni bu oranda evsiz kılacak. Okula gittim ve meşgul oldum. 30 yaşına kadar müşteri hizmetleri veya çıkmaz işlerle sınırlı olmam gerekmemeliyim. İş bulmak için daha ne yapabilirim? Bir iş için vücudumu kırmak istemiyorum.
Yaratıcı özlemlerim var, ancak minimumda beni kazançlı bir şekilde istihdam eden bir işim olamazsa (tamamen kendi kendine yeterli) bunların hiçbiri geçerli değil.
Kelimenin tam anlamıyla istihdama ihtiyacım var ve denediğim şeyin ötesinde ne yapacağımı bilmiyorum.
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Not enough info here – what field are you in?
I think you are on the verge of receiving some “false tough love” in this thread.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/findapath/comments/1biklrk/theres_a_difference_between_tough_love_and/](https://www.reddit.com/r/findapath/comments/1biklrk/theres_a_difference_between_tough_love_and/)
I also think you’ve over-relied on job boards.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/findapath/comments/1lvs99c/are_job_boards_broken_online_or_functioning/](https://www.reddit.com/r/findapath/comments/1lvs99c/are_job_boards_broken_online_or_functioning/)
The world owes our young people the sense that they are welcome in our society. Especially people who are willing and able to work, have finished an adequate education, and haven’t seriously screwed up.
(Serious screw up? If you follow “the rules” you haven’t screwed up. You should bear no children without being in a committed long-term relationship, you should have neither substance nor behavior addictions, no debt, no mortgage commitments without adequate income to finance it, you should finish your education. Kids addictions debt education.)
There are people who say, “the world doesn’t owe you anything,” which is usually helpful advice for entitled young people who might wrongly think “I deserve a great job that’s easy and lucrative.” Well, no, kid, you don’t. But I think that same statement, “the world doesn’t owe you anything,” has sometimes been used only as a disguise for, “I want to beat up on you.” Beware the latter. Some people use it because they got lucky in the school of hard knocks, perhaps due to generational wealth or perhaps because of dumb luck, and yet they don’t want to admit that their success was mostly due to factors that they could not personally take credit for, so they tend to hammer on other people, trying to imply or express that they supposedly tried harder than them, even though they didn’t. Beware the latter, as explained in the “false tough love” comment. “You should tough it out” or “grow balls” is seldom helpful, though a few times it may indeed be applicable.
I think the world definitely DOES owe you, and every other one of our young people, the right to be participants in our society. This (the educated urbanized West, whether Europe or North America) is the wealthiest culture which mankind has ever produced. We have more available food, clothing, shelter, education, entertainment, general wealth, health, education, social mobility, potentially to distribute, than ever before in the history of humans on this planet. Yet, because of weird money dynamics, we also have a limited few irresponsible hoarders at the top who drive the free market into an unintended spiral of increasing labor for decreasing rewards. You are, sadly, born into that time in which there will be extreme demands placed on you, whether in terms of lesser rewards or greater effort. Looking at the long view, it’s not your fault. I am sad to say, that you must figure out how to live through it anyway.
So, in that sense, the world doesn’t owe you anything. You are in this world as it is, right now, and that’s just going to be a fact no matter what, and it won’t change the world to complain about it, so no, you shouldn’t complain about it. But in another sense, sure, the world owes you a lot. You are always owed respect, and human rights, and a right to earn a decent living honestly, and the right to having loved ones, friends, your own family. You may not be getting that right now, particularly in terms of how much most of us must work for just how little reward, in which case, yes, you should complain about it.
Join the military. Free education, steady pay + housing + benefits. Respected career. It will mature you like nothing else.
The world doesn’t owe you anything remember that
What is your background in? What’s your degree in? What experience do you have ? Are there a lot of positions where you live ? It’s not a one size fits all solution
**Are you networking?**
* Reach out to your friends who have good jobs. Invite them out to have a coffee and catch up. Catch up. Let them know you are looking for work casually in the conversation.
* Reach out to friends of your parents. The older generation often have contacts that can help. Your ‘uncles’ and ‘aunts’ should be willing to help.
**Look for a mentor**
***** (SCORE.org is a good resource) The RE is retired executive. These people are bored and are willing to help.
* Maybe they can crack a door open for you. Old people have contacts.
* They can coach you on how to interview.
**Get your resume reviewed**
* There are whole subreddits on this.
* Make sure your resume is buzzword compliant and HR parser friendly.
**LinkedIn.**
Build your linkedin network. If you haven’t already
* Get on linkedin.
* Invite all your close friends / classmates day 1
* Build your career / work profile.
* Follow 6 to 8 hashtags that interest you
* Follow 2 to 3 top companies for those hashtags
* Make thoughtful comments 2 to 3 times a week (more if you are actually looking)
* Keep at this year around.
* Try to make a post on something you are a near expert on. (Hey your term paper from an 200 or 300 class!) Try to get some engagement.
* Every week try to add 3 more people until you get to 100.
* DO NOT ACCEPT CONNECTIONS FROM PEOPLE YOU DO NOT KNOW
* If you get a long topic going with someone, browse their profile (do your best to make sure that they are real), then send an invite to them if they are potentially useful. Make sure to follow them.