26 yaşındayım. Aklımda belirli işler veya alanlar olmadan süper bir alanda mı çalışmalıyım?

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1. Icebear_79

   Mart 6, 2026 - 6:42 pm

   TLDR: try committing to something fuck around and find out (don’t go in debts) and maybe watch Dr.k video on Puer Aternus.

   A few years ago, I was in the same situation. This is just my personal experience though, so take it with a grain of salt.

   For a long time, I didn’t really have one clear interest. I’m also the type of person who tries to avoid problems by thinking way too far ahead. I would imagine every possible outcome and try to plan for the best scenario, the “perfect” one. But the reality is, life doesn’t work like that.

   At some point I got tired of overthinking and basically told myself to just start somewhere.
   I ended up working part time in restaurants. I realized I didn’t actually hate the job, but I also couldn’t see myself doing it every day for the rest of my life. While working there, I started thinking more seriously about what I wanted out of life. I realized I wanted more freedom. I want more personal time to explore different interests and the ability to relocate if I wanted to. I want my life to feel like it’s moving forward and changing. That job didn’t seem like it would give me many new experiences.

   So I decided to enroll in community college. I try one engineering design class and also started teaching myself some coding on the side. Surprisingly, I actually enjoyed it. That was when the idea of becoming a software engineer started to feel appealing, especially the possibility of working remotely. So I started studying computer engineering.

   My point is we can try to optimize every decision in life, but things will never be perfect. The best thing I can do is pick a direction, commit to it for a while. maybe a year or two, and then reflect .

   If you realize it’s not for you, that’s still useful. You’ll build discipline and resilience just by sticking with something and following through. But if it does work out, then great. You have found something you actually enjoy.

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