Eylül 3, 2025
24F, 6 yıllık başarısız üniversite girişimleri, iş yok, ne yapmalıyım?
Büyük bir başarısızlık gibi hissediyorum. Pek çok kolejde pek çok büyük program denedim ve hepsinden başarısız oldum veya bıraktım. DEHB dahil çok fazla akıl hastalığım var, tıbba iyi tepki vermeyen ve çok farklı psikiyatrik ilaçları denedim, saçma. Fiziksel sağlığım da harika değil. Liseden beri bir işim olmadı ve daha fazla utanç veren bu olmadan herhangi bir yere başvurmak için çok aşağılandım.
Şimdiye kadar denediğim en zor program olan ekoloji, tarih, veteriner teknolojisi, veri bilimi ve en son bilgisayar bilimi denedim ve bundan nefret ediyorum. Ama babamın bu dereceyle çalıştığı şirket aracılığıyla staj yapabileceğimi biliyordum ve derecenin bana birçok farklı kariyer elde etme esnekliği vereceğini düşündüm. Ama şimdiye kadar yaptığım en zor şey ve beni gerçekten öldürüyor ve bu dönem derslerimi geçeceğimi bile düşünmüyorum çünkü çok zor ve kafa karıştırıcı.
Ebeveynlerimin iyi niyetinden kurtuldum ve dürüst olmak gerekirse bu yılın baÅŸlarında KMS’ye gidiyordum ama kardeÅŸim öldürüldü, bu da beni hayata kilitledi ya da ailem de yapamayacağım. Hayatım bir karmaÅŸa ve ben sadece okulla bitmek ve devam etmek istiyorum. Tüm arkadaÅŸlarım mezun oldu ve iÅŸleri var ve ben de 18 yaşındayken aynı yerdeyim ama ÅŸimdi çok borçluyum. Ãœniversitede denemek ve baÅŸarısız olmaktan yoruldum, bunun benim için olduÄŸunu düşünmüyorum, ama masaları veya inÅŸaatı beklemeyen her ÅŸeyin bu gün ve yaÅŸta bir dereceye ihtiyacı var, peki ne yapmam gerekiyor?
İyi ödeme yapan sıkıcı bir iş istiyorum. Burada çok fazla maaş istemiyorum çünkü muhtemelen bu ekonomide sonsuza dek evde yaşayacağım. Bordro veya elektronik tablolar veya diğer monoton şeyler gibi bir şey. Sadece tıbbi faturalarım ve bir iki kedi için ödemek için yeterli para istiyorum çünkü hayvanları her şeyden çok seviyorum. Aynı teknede bulunan kişilerden her türlü rehberlik veya tavsiye takdir edilecektir.
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Well then, wait tables. Depends on the area but some waitresses can make decent money.
Lean into your strengths (something I regret not doing sooner in life!).
You said you love animals more than anything, so maybe find a job that ‘feels real’ to you in animal shelter, pet obedience classes facilitator, walking/sitting jobs, zoos, student/intern jobs in vet offices, or basically anything that has anything to do with animals.
It sounds like you’d be great at caring or helping animals and I think those animals are just waiting for people like you! If you can’t get a job yet, start with volunteering (as I did) and let your connections grow from there.
Wish you all the best!
PS: You don’t need the full answer, just need to find your next step. You got this!
No need for a degree! And also cashiers, secretaries, warehouse workers, and housekeeping are all important positions. People have this idea that only certain jobs are prestigious enough or good enough. But don’t let your happiness be defined by these preconceived ideas. I am a nurse and was a nursing assistant in the past. Both jobs are stressful and sometimes I have regret. The most fun and enjoyable job I ever had was working at a hardware store surprisingly enough and the pay was not much different than a CNA and CNA is an awful job. Look at entry level jobs like these and stick with one thing for a minimum of 6 months. Some of the happiest people I know have the more entry level jobs. Nursing is very stressful and requires a lot of schooling. More school isn’t always better.
I’ll be brutally honest here, if you’re this stuck, you won’t figure it out by wasting money rinsing new majors over and over again. I quit school when I was 21 because I didn’t like my major, so I just worked instead. I was probably on my 5th or 6th job by the time I was 24. And this was important for me because it helped me meet new people, experience new professions and most importantly gain perspective on what I wanted out of a career. Now I’m 26 and in school for something I feel passionately about. I also have ADHD, but now that I actually enjoy school it’s much easier to cope with. Maybe you just need to take a break away from school and put yourself in a situation where you can really find yourself first. There’s a lot more to experience in your 20s than just school.
If he any to work for someone your life then work a 9-5 … if u want to spend your days free making income monthly in a set date be entrepreneur… if I want to make 2k a week work a 9-5 , if u want to make 10 k a week be entrepreneur— most ppl on Reddit r losers and accept only what the gov tells them to do , but the people who go off and don’t listen r the ones who become free and abundant
Entrepreneurship – look at how most wealthy ppl get wealthy & maybe pick something u feel like u can do that they do . Bc we’re capable – try to find something you don’t need school for ( YouTube is literally a school ) … I’m n same boat . ADHD isn’t something u need drugs for its a super power — learn to channel that energy – in this system it’s not fair so what u want to do to make a living u may not have a choice to do – u have to just do what workouts/ match’s the level of life u want tot live … but one thing I know : fighting this struggle can have a person feeling down & lost – like it’s the end or there’s no way out : but think outside of the box and stay positive – u were never meant to be chasing money on earth anyways … it’s meant to keep the ppl mf a suppressed -controlled state almost like animals n the zoo . Things can change in the matter of a day – u never kno what opportunity is around the corner or that amazing person who offers u something. If your lost like me focus on becoming the best version of yourself in every way // because your job is outside of you . Once u alight your mind / body they say things start to fall into place