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1. ___Paladin___

   Ocak 18, 2026 - 5:33 am

   The way jobs in general right now work aren’t really meant for anyone. At least not humans. I work in software development, but I’ve done jobs in retail, security, food, travel, cars, etc etc etc throughout my life. Engineering is my passion, but even a dream like that has its nightmares and unrealistic expectations.

   My father taught me as a kid that jobs will either take your mind, your body, or your soul. Pick the two you want to protect the most and don’t work in a field that’ll take them.

   Maybe helpful, maybe not. It’s mayhem out there. Best of luck, friend.

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2. Ordinary_Site_5350

   Ocak 18, 2026 - 5:33 am

   There is a fundamental truth that we all have to learn. If we don’t, we will destroy ourselves at some point – burnout, anger, depression, crossed boundaries, an infinite variety of mental and even physical harm can and will fall on us:

   There is no “right job for you”
   It’s a myth
   There’s no “job that was made for you”
   There’s no “job you were meant to do”

   If you keep looking for the “right” job
   – you will miss out on great opportunities because you were thinking too narrowly about what you “should” be doing or looking for
   – you might find something that seems and feels perfect, and slowly begin to hate it, or it might change, or you lose the job or can’t do that career at all for unpredictable reasons
   – you can become so rigid about THAT being RIGHT that you allow your boundaries to be crossed over and over

   You should know what you want, but you can’t allow yourself to become fixated on that narrow vision

   You have to protect yourself, keep your guard up, always be looking casually at other jobs, always keep your resume to to date, always know your market value, make sure you bail at the first sign of burnout.

   The idea of the “right job” turns a career into a religion. We can become dogmatic and lose our objectivity and sense of self.

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3. monkeyinpsychology

   Ocak 18, 2026 - 5:33 am

   Do you like it when you find yourself interacting with others in ways that allow you to help them while exercising your own creativity and problem solving? I know that so far my parts time jobs that allow me to do that have felt fulfilling.

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4. maxinedenis

   Ocak 18, 2026 - 5:33 am

   I get excited on Sunday nights to go to work.

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