20 yaşındayım, meteliksizim, kafam karışık ve bir planım varmış gibi davranmaktan yoruldum

20 yaşındayım. Sağlam bir becerim yok. İstikrarlı bir gelir yok.

Ticaret, kripto ve çevrimiçi para konusunda bir fikirden diğerine atlayıp duruyorum ve sayamayacağım kadar çok kez başarısız oldum.

Depresyonda değilim. Sadece bitkin ve yönsüzüm.

Çevremdeki herkes ilerliyormuş gibi görünüyor ve ben yapmak yerine düşünmeye takılıp kalıyorum.

Sempati istemiyorum.

Bilmek istiyorum:

\-What did you do when you were genuinely lost?

\-What actually worked and what was bullshit advice?

Kendime yalan söylediğimi ya da bariz bir şeyi kaçırdığımı düşünüyorsanız söyleyin. Alabilirim.

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  1. Current-Two129
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 9:12 pm

    I’m lost too and I’m four years older than you. I’m trying to pray and ask God for guidance, but also i’m trying to find out what I like. Something that I’m learning the hard way If you rush yourself to jump into something you will sit in paralysis forever and be unable to choose. That’s what happened to me. I felt pressure to pursue a degree I started, but was unmotivated, and now feel so much pressure to figure out whats next. I feel so much pressure i feel paralyzed and don’t know what to do next. I learned though that I need to just take small steps of trying different things. If i do that I’ll be closer to figuring out what I’m good at and what I like to do. Also be kind to yourself. Don’t take yourself so seriously. You have a whole decade to live until your 30.

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  2. Valuable-Key-9638
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 9:12 pm

    This is me right now at 21

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  3. Legitimate_Flan9764
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 9:12 pm

    Are you certified in a professional and marketable skill? If not, it is timed for one, be it accounting, programming or hands-on welding/piping. You will be paid for a skill, without which you will be groping around for something that eventually sticks, which will take longer than usual.
    There is little return in romanticising about online money trading, one just cant rake enough rewards for little movement on the charts, unless you have a huge stakes to multiply thru to cover living costs and almost round the clock attention paid to them. It is not a viable livelihood.

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  4. HermanDaddy07
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 9:12 pm

    You can’t get someplace without a plan and a proven roadmap. Imagine you’re in Philadelphia and you want to go to Disney world in Orlando. There are two parts to the trip (mode = how you travel. Car, plane, walk, etc) and route ( car taking I-95, plane from PHL to ATL to Orlando, etc)
    It sounds like your plans are missing integral parts.

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  5. Possible_Donut4451
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 9:12 pm

    First thing first Trading and crypto are not ez money as those furus are promoting to sell you courses, or cpa on links. It’s a very hard job, most of successful traders take 2-3 years to know their orientation and more than 3 years to build a robust process you can count 6 years at least before saying that you do trading, else you are just gaming on financial markets (it’s a field with a very low feedback-loop) it’s also an exhaustive job that can drain your psychology and break your self confidence if you don’t stand on good ground.

    I won’t answer your questions frankly, there are not what you need right now cause you didn’t yet started,

    Okey my advise to you now, stop looking for low-barrier jobs (that anyone could start), and look for high-barrier to entry jobs that have longevity and are demanded in job markets (things like software development, healt-care jobs, logistics etc.

    You are not lying to yourself dude, it’s the natural outcome of running after ez-money or taking those paths; Also if you want really to do trading, you should have at least 5 years money living, and really learn it the right way (it’s not something you can obviously do from social media gurus content)

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  6. Upstairs_Heart_767
    Aralık 14, 2025 - 9:12 pm

    Try to get into politics & just milk the USA for foreign interests & corporate greed. It seems like a great occupation. A twenty year old could do a lot of evil & damage 30 years from now. So go for it kid.

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