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My (19f) girlfriend said the way I (19m) initiate sex is a turn off, and after having it explained to me I agree. I’m awkward sexually and I need help.

My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years, she has had the normal school experience of dating and relationships where as I haven’t. Now, she hasn’t been sexual in most of them as she was young but she understands people and stuff like that much better than me, She knows how to get me going every time she’s in the mood where as I struggle and turn her off.

Growing up, I was the typical overweight, loser stay at home gamer type and was until I met my girlfriend. I no longer touch games and spend most of my time working, which I am happy with. I had the same group of friends from when i was ten up until 16, so I never really socialised apart from my friends so I struggle now forming deeper connections or even talking to new people. Because of this, I find it hard to read people and situations and it stresses me out if I don’t have a concrete answer of what’s going to happen.

I don’t know what to do when it comes to turning my gf on, she has told me what she likes but I’m not as ‘smooth’ or anything so I find it hard to do the things, or progress it without either asking for sex or asking to see her naked. When I think about it it makes me cringes, but I cant seem to stop myself from doing it. Like i literally say ‘please can I see your ass, I need to see it’ and keep on asking even if I know I’m not going to get shown.

It’s embarrassing trying to turn her on and her not getting in the mood, but I’m just so bad at the initiating and teasing parts. Once we actually get into bed its great, but I wish I could tease and turn her on without basically begging for it. And if we do have sex without me asking, its because she has initiated it. At first I was insulted, but I’ve realised a woman doesn’t want to be hounded by a man asking to see her naked and asking to have sex with him. What else can I do?

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  1. Hug and kiss her and **if she seems receptive**, let your hands start to roam a little. If she’s still receptive, let them slip under her clothes and take it from there. If you do it right, you are basically asking for sex and she can say yes or no without overtly rejecting you (by just pulling away or whatever.)

  2. good start that she communicated with you that what’s happening now isn’t working, now it’s your turn to communicate with her and ask for help

  3. Have you asked her what would get her in the mood?

    Every person is different, and only she can tell you exactly what would work. The only general advice I’d offer, is that your current method of initiating sex is all about how you want her to turn *you* on. Maybe you could try initiating in a way that focuses the attention on getting her turned on and wanting to make her feel good.

  4. Just watch p*rn. Okay, kidding.
    You’re only 19, don’t worry, Rome also wasn’t built in a day. Practice makes perfect, so just try to relax a try to find out what works for both of you and it’ll get better with time. You can also ask your gf to take the lead at least temporarily and initiate sex more. Good luck :).

  5. Did you ask her to show you exactly how to get her interested?