*Throwaway for obvious reasons.*
So the low down is me (M27) and my wife (F28), we’ve been married 6 years.
We are not having a great time, I will admit now I am not the husband of the year, but I do want to do better. I have been short with my wife in the past, never physical, and likewise she’s a bit short with me (we’re both stubborn you see)
My wife is currently on a tip away this weekend visiting a new friend.
But some of her behaviour traits seem off….
I did a very bad thing and read through her discord messages with this guy. (She leaves the laptop on)
I did that Just because how quiet she was about this trip, how quiet she is about the person she’s meeting, and how in the past when she talked to an ex she brought up “open marriage”.
There’s messages which are sexual in nature, general fliting, and talk about “making up excuses” about the trip.
I don’t know what to do..
I am shaking, I can barely breathe, I do not know what to do…
She won’t admit to sleeping with someone else, and this is completely out of character for her.
How do I approach this???I have no one to talk to.