Hi everyone! I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 months now, but we were friends for almost 5 months before we started our relationship. He was in a bad place at the beginning of our relationship but he’s gotten a lot better. I’m in college and he’s in high school, and I drive 3 hours every weekend to see him. I bring him food, get him flowers, take him out on dates, write him love letters, listen to the music he likes, went on the pill for him, etc. I always do what he wants to do even if I don’t want to do it. For example, if I want to go out somewhere on a real date, he just wants to stay home and cuddle. I’ll do that for him, because I don’t want to make him do something he doesn’t want to do. I’m always all over him and he LOVES what I do for him and the attention I give him. However, he doesn’t really do anything for me. He tells me he loves me all the time, and he loves kissing me. His love language is physical touch, so I get plenty of it, but I feel like it’s almost more for him. I liked taking care of him when he really needed it, but now it’s starting to feel like I’m his mom. I want to receive flowers too. I want him to take me out to do something he knows I’ll love. I want him to be thoughtful. I want surprises and love letters and I want to go out into the world and have a good time doing something with him. I want to feel special. I just don’t know how to tell him what I need from him without making him feel like a bad boyfriend. I don’t want to make him feel like shit and I don’t want to ask too much of him. How do I start this conversation and what do I say?
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