So I want to start by saying my boyfriend is an amazing man. He is intelligent, kind, and overall wonderful. But we keep running into a problem. He is becoming a little aggressive with his kink. He told me at the beginning of our relationship that he thinks that me wearing fox ears during sex is adorable and hot. I thought it was cute too so I played along. I’m usually the dominant one in our relationship and it fit well into that narrative. But now it’s becoming more present in our relationship than I’d like. He wants me to wear the ears all the time, and he literally talks to me in baby talk (the way you’d talk to a dog in public). We went to target and while I was looking for some birthday cards for my dad, he said “Aww you’re being such a good girl, I wish you had your little fox tail to wag”. Ive told him many times that I’d like to be treated like a human in public. He’s also upped the antics since then, he’s gotten me a fox tail butt plug, which I’ve told him makes me feel uncomfortable. But he is relentless about me wearing it. Tonight we started kissing and he slipped the ears over my head. Maybe it’s crazy but I felt a little hurt and asked him if he liked me for me or for the fox persona I put on for him. He got really sad and told me that of course he loves me for me. He’s been really quiet since. Have I fucked up? Am I being too insensitive about his fetish?