My parents are really wonderful in a lot of ways, but particularly when my mom was stressed working 12 and 24 hour shifts in the ER, she had a lot of anger issues and a tendency to yell.I didn’t think it was that extreme since it was my normal but sometimes my best friend will still just casually point out that things my mom did were kind of emotionally abusive.Like sometimes when we’d fight my mom would storm off and lock herself in her room and wouldn’t come out till I begged her to, there was some name calling, one time I didn’t come to put a dish away fast enough so she just dropped it on the floor and let it shatter, stuff like that. She evened out a lot more when she went back to family medicine and a relatively normal sleeping schedule, but by that point I think a lot of the damage had been done. I’m way too quick to apologize in disagreements even when I’m not in the wrong, and it’s definitely contributed to my anxiety. My mom and I have a good relationship for the most part, but I definitely still have some stuff to work through.
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My parents are really wonderful in a lot of ways, but particularly when my mom was stressed working 12 and 24 hour shifts in the ER, she had a lot of anger issues and a tendency to yell.I didn't think it was that extreme since it was my normal but sometimes my best friend will still just casually poDevamını oku
My parents are really wonderful in a lot of ways, but particularly when my mom was stressed working 12 and 24 hour shifts in the ER, she had a lot of anger issues and a tendency to yell.I didn’t think it was that extreme since it was my normal but sometimes my best friend will still just casually point out that things my mom did were kind of emotionally abusive.Like sometimes when we’d fight my mom would storm off and lock herself in her room and wouldn’t come out till I begged her to, there was some name calling, one time I didn’t come to put a dish away fast enough so she just dropped it on the floor and let it shatter, stuff like that. She evened out a lot more when she went back to family medicine and a relatively normal sleeping schedule, but by that point I think a lot of the damage had been done. I’m way too quick to apologize in disagreements even when I’m not in the wrong, and it’s definitely contributed to my anxiety. My mom and I have a good relationship for the most part, but I definitely still have some stuff to work through.
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