I hate my autistic son
[Remorse]
I cant help it, my life is constantly terrible. I spend as much time as work as possible. The worst part is that I am supposed to pretend that I am happy about it. When we get together with the other parents and everyone is pretending their kids are as normal as anyone else. They are not. All of us secretly wish they were never born.
I would never dare tell my wife this. She is in total denial. Every time he screams or has a breakdown I just wish he would die. I believe that violence is a lot more common than you think. but my wife and I always control ourselves. I can’t stand it though. Why has god done this to me, and why instead of having support are you not supposed to say this. It is terrible, and I did not deserve it yet I am supposed to pretend life is just great.
this is a great villain back story, feels very reasonable yet feels wrong
this is a great villain back story, feels very reasonable yet feels wrong
Daha az görI have autistic kids and,…man it’s hard. 2 sons. My oldest is bright but has social anxiety to the point that he’ll never be able to get a job outside the house. My youngest loves other people but has other difficulties thanks to seizures as a baby. He’s capable of learning and does math and readingDevamını oku
I have autistic kids and,…man it’s hard. 2 sons. My oldest is bright but has social anxiety to the point that he’ll never be able to get a job outside the house. My youngest loves other people but has other difficulties thanks to seizures as a baby. He’s capable of learning and does math and reading at grade level, but emotionally acts like a 4 year old and has serious impulse control issues.
We have to homeschool because the special education system failed us in a huge way. Allegations of physical and verbal abuse, 20 kids of varied levels of function being taken care of by one teacher, being told our kids would end up in jail because they refused to follow directions….
I won’t say I understand or sympathize with whoever posted this but….I can get it a little. You have to be exceptionally strong to get through it. I was weak for a long time, and took it out in bad ways. But I always loved my boys. Im trying to do better by them now.
Daha az görGod why are some people actually like the dude who posted it here is the op also this place is a fuckin minefield
God why are some people actually like the dude who posted it here is the op also this place is a fuckin minefield
Daha az görI can't tell him to stop being an asshole, and to accept his son, while i have never been in his shoes. Honestly, all i have to say is stay strong and do what you think is best. There are couples that would accept your child and raise it
I can’t tell him to stop being an asshole, and to accept his son, while i have never been in his shoes.
Daha az görHonestly, all i have to say is stay strong and do what you think is best. There are couples that would accept your child and raise it
This is my biggest fear. I know for a fact that I would react just like the OP of this post. I am not a good enough person.
This is my biggest fear. I know for a fact that I would react just like the OP of this post. I am not a good enough person.
Daha az görThis shit ain’t funny just sad
This shit ain’t funny just sad
Daha az görOh shit
Oh shit
Daha az görPeople like this shouldn’t have kids
People like this shouldn’t have kids
Daha az görmore fuel for my burning self hatred (definitely 100% a joke)
more fuel for my burning self hatred (definitely 100% a joke)
Daha az gör[Remorse] makes it look like these are supposed to be lyrics
[Remorse] makes it look like these are supposed to be lyrics
Daha az görare you my dad
are you my dad
Daha az görTwo of my little brothers are autistic, and one of them used to act like this a lot. Thankfully my family was able to afford therapy for them, and they are a lot better.
Two of my little brothers are autistic, and one of them used to act like this a lot. Thankfully my family was able to afford therapy for them, and they are a lot better.
Daha az görLmfao i can't believe we just let anyone have a kid
Lmfao i can’t believe we just let anyone have a kid
Daha az gördad?
dad?
Daha az görThat reminds me of a similar story about a (kind of) psycho kid. The father confessed he was about to kill his son and he regrets that **he didn't**. His son stared torturing animals when he was young, ended up killing them later on in gruesome ways. His wife got pregnant with a girl who was normal,Devamını oku
That reminds me of a similar story about a (kind of) psycho kid. The father confessed he was about to kill his son and he regrets that **he didn’t**.
His son stared torturing animals when he was young, ended up killing them later on in gruesome ways. His wife got pregnant with a girl who was normal, the kid was like 17 (ig). After she was born, the kid started playing with knifes around her, i remember something about some scratches he did on her with a knife. The whole family locked the kid upstairs and he started tearing everything apart.
The father got in a fight with his son, almost killed him and then moved out.
The saddest part is that the kid was sent to a psychiatrist but they couldn’t do anything. Idk if it’s a real story or it was made up but it’s crazy.
^if ^you ^saw ^the ^post ^please ^drop ^a ^link, ^I ^can’t ^find ^it ^anywhere
Daha az görThats actually kind of sad...
Thats actually kind of sad…
Daha az görIs this a real post
Is this a real post
Daha az görAutism parents are my least favorite kind of parents
Autism parents are my least favorite kind of parents
Daha az görDamn this is sad
Damn this is sad
Daha az görMy cousin is severely autistic. I didn’t know it as a child. I just thought he was crazy. I remember when we were kids he would have breakdowns and my grandfather would grab him by his head and proceed to slam it continuously against the wall until he was silent. Even now as kind of a sick family joDevamını oku
My cousin is severely autistic. I didn’t know it as a child. I just thought he was crazy. I remember when we were kids he would have breakdowns and my grandfather would grab him by his head and proceed to slam it continuously against the wall until he was silent.
Even now as kind of a sick family joke when he’s having a bad day they’ll tell him, “oh here comes grandpa”, and he instantly goes quiet.
Daha az gördude...
dude…
Daha az görWow sounds like my mom she tried to kill me once it was poggers
Wow sounds like my mom she tried to kill me once it was poggers
Daha az gör[Here the post that I got this form](https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/2ff4sx/i_hate_my_autistic_son/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
[Here the post that I got this form](https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/2ff4sx/i_hate_my_autistic_son/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
Daha az görBruh this is what you don’t turn into a copypasta
Bruh this is what you don’t turn into a copypasta
Daha az görJesus..
Jesus..
Daha az görI'm wondering if you guys can get more professional help? It's important that you have some respite with your wife, some time out together. Are there any charities or support groups you can reach out to? Are there family members that can stand in and give you a break? Are there professional nurses,Devamını oku
I’m wondering if you guys can get more professional help? It’s important that you have some respite with your wife, some time out together. Are there any charities or support groups you can reach out to? Are there family members that can stand in and give you a break? Are there professional nurses, etc that could come round the house and help? I run a charity for a different genetic disorder in children and I’m actually a bereaved mother as my child died very young. Be careful what you wish for as the pain of losing a child is unbearable, especially for your wife and then comes the guilt. You spending time away is not helping to your wife. Try and do things together as she needs you more than ever. Start looking at what services are out there that you both can benefit from. And like someone else has said, this is not your child’s fault, you guys need to be trained on some coping methods and possibly equipment that will protect you from outbursts, etc. Good luck 👍
Daha az görThis is a dark pasta, like a whole wheat copypasta…
This is a dark pasta, like a whole wheat copypasta…
Daha az görChris Chan’s father diary leak
Chris Chan’s father diary leak
Daha az gör*comment from the original post* So much bullshit in this thread. Being autistic is the best thing ever. It’s you neurotypicals that ruin it for it. I can’t believe my life and this kids life and so many other ppls lives are up in the chopping block like this. And why? Because you guys can’t stop anDevamını oku
*comment from the original post*
So much bullshit in this thread. Being autistic is the best thing ever. It’s you neurotypicals that ruin it for it. I can’t believe my life and this kids life and so many other ppls lives are up in the chopping block like this. And why? Because you guys can’t stop and listen to us and learn to communicate how we want to communicate. You just want your kid to be “normal” fuck that of course he’s miserable you’d make him miserable by feeling this way. Maybe if you all had more love and kindness in ur hearts you could try to understand and accept autistic ppl as who we are but you just want to tamp us down until we’re all dead.
Daha az görBruh this is the first post ive seen here that made everyone just sit down and think for a bit like damn :/
Bruh this is the first post ive seen here that made everyone just sit down and think for a bit like damn :/
Daha az görNTA your son, your rules
NTA your son, your rules
Daha az görHow’d you manage to find this ?
How’d you manage to find this ?
Daha az görThe comments on the original are so sad honestly... as much as I would like to have a child who didn't personally feel trapped within their own bodies, at least they're alive and get to experience things.
The comments on the original are so sad honestly… as much as I would like to have a child who didn’t personally feel trapped within their own bodies, at least they’re alive and get to experience things.
Daha az görGee, people here never know how it felt taking care someone autistic don't they?
Gee, people here never know how it felt taking care someone autistic don’t they?
Daha az görWhy the fuck did you post this?
Why the fuck did you post this?
Daha az görits his fault he nutted him
its his fault he nutted him
Daha az gör☹️ Jesus
☹️ Jesus
Daha az görNew automod line????
New automod line????
Daha az görThis isn’t a copypasta, this is just sad.
This isn’t a copypasta, this is just sad.
Daha az görI know a lot of people with autism that wish they were normal/never born in the first place. It's a struggle being self aware enough to hate yourself, but being powerless to stop it.
I know a lot of people with autism that wish they were normal/never born in the first place. It’s a struggle being self aware enough to hate yourself, but being powerless to stop it.
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