Hey reddit, before I begin, let me start by saying that my wife and I have been married for 20 years and we have had children (1 is 17, other is 14). When we first got married she was really hot, but in the past few years she’s become ugly and has gained weight (imagine big chungus or ugandan knuckles) When I brought it up with her and said she should go to the gym, she said that she had no time because of work. She asked if I could take care of the housework for her. I said no of course, because I was busy streaming minecraft and uploading clip compilations to my youtube channel. She’s very understanding of my full time career and its never been a problem for her. But recently, she’s asked for some pretty unrealistic goals from me, such as; «get a job to help pay bills,» or, «clean up the house for once.» She even asked me to bond with our children. Like, fucking yikes. Isn’t that your job? So I retaliated by having sex with a hooker. I told her about it and said that if she wanted me to stop, she’d have to do better. But, now she’s run away to her parents house and has said that she’d be arranging a divorce. So, Reddit. Is she being unreasonable here or what?